YoungFig
May 4, 2013, 01:20 AM
So I am 17 and a 17 year old guy friend told me he likes me. We haven't been able to hangout outside of class yet, but recently he asked me how far I would go with him. Since I had never dated anyone before and be would be my first, I asked him the same question. He responded by saying he had been given oral and had fingered a girl before. He described it as basically having sex without the intercourse part of it.
I don't really know what to do because I don't even think I would go past 1st base at this point since I have never even had my 1st kiss. Not to mention I'm not if sure if I like him I just really enjoy spending time with him and talking to him.
So many of my friends have said to just end it before it even begins and some are saying I should at least give him a chance.
I have zero experience in the relationship world so I'm not really sure what I should do. Does he seem like a total womanizer just in it for the sex? Should I give him a chance to prove himself to me? What do I do if he want to go further than what I am ready for? Please help
I don't really know what to do because I don't even think I would go past 1st base at this point since I have never even had my 1st kiss. Not to mention I'm not if sure if I like him I just really enjoy spending time with him and talking to him.
So many of my friends have said to just end it before it even begins and some are saying I should at least give him a chance.
I have zero experience in the relationship world so I'm not really sure what I should do. Does he seem like a total womanizer just in it for the sex? Should I give him a chance to prove himself to me? What do I do if he want to go further than what I am ready for? Please help