Soooo, I'm in this band with some of my college buddies. None of us are too bad at singing, but as a 4 man band we wanted to focus on our instruments more. I myself am the bassist. Our rhythm and lead guitarists sing too, but we agreed on it being hard to sound as awesome blah-blah-blah, anyway, we found a lead singer. And not only does she have a beautiful voice but the personality and body to fit the part. We also picked up a friend from high school to rap for us as a joke sometimes, it's pretty hilarious. Regardless, I'm crushin on this girl and I know it's an unwritten rule to never date inside the band, it's bad for the band. And leaving is out of the question. What is everyone's thoughts on this unwritten rule?

Don't date her. Keep your crush secret.