I've recently been in touch with an ex ov mine.. been out a couple times, txting each other and we've arranged to go out over the next week or so... is it a bad thing to get back in touch with her or should I just see how it goes and take it we are mates and nothing more?:confused: :confused: :confused:

It all depends, think back to when you split up and why you split up, could you get past that?

I got back in touch with one of my ex-girlfriends and now we're madly in love, much more so than the first time we were going out, so it can work for some people!

If you both have grown and can handle what your doing now, go for it. Go slow with no expectations of anything, but having fun getting reacquainted.