JackDanumber7
Apr 27, 2013, 03:10 AM
Hi, I have a problem that I have been with my girl for over 10 years and for the last six month my life has been hell.
The story goes is whilst on holiday I found evidence on her phone that she was telling someone from her workplace that she was in love with them and had a connection with them like she hasn’t connected with anyone before. A right kick in the balls this was.
From the holiday I moved out because I loved her and it was the gentleman thing to do, as she told me she needed time to sort her messed up feelings out because she was still telling me she loved me. Well after a week she had slept with him for the first time this guy is 10 years older than her 40 and lives with his parents and hasn’t had a girlfriend for the past 5 years. He also suffers from a medical condition which is M.E.
So after this nightmare I went home and kicked her out of the house went to this bloke’s house and give him what for which ended up me being in trouble with the police. So I starting living in the house on my own and went through a lot of pain and a lot of JD. She went to live at her mums and from what I know she didn’t do anything more with the other fella.
Due to the fact I love her we starting seeing each other again and 4months later she started to move back in and we decided to go away for a weekend which was good. Things were getting better I was beginning to forget and I stopped checking her phone because I couldn’t trust her I was doing this every other day. Which she knew about but then she started saying I had to trust her.
1 week after coming back from the weekend away the affection I was receiving from her had gone her attitude had changed and I questioned her. The other bloke had been texting her again saying he loved her which she hasn’t told him back but has admitted to me she still has feelings for him.
So at this point right now I’m living with my girlfriend who is telling me she loves me sees a future with me but has these feelings for another bloke which I don’t know what to do as I love her.
The story goes is whilst on holiday I found evidence on her phone that she was telling someone from her workplace that she was in love with them and had a connection with them like she hasn’t connected with anyone before. A right kick in the balls this was.
From the holiday I moved out because I loved her and it was the gentleman thing to do, as she told me she needed time to sort her messed up feelings out because she was still telling me she loved me. Well after a week she had slept with him for the first time this guy is 10 years older than her 40 and lives with his parents and hasn’t had a girlfriend for the past 5 years. He also suffers from a medical condition which is M.E.
So after this nightmare I went home and kicked her out of the house went to this bloke’s house and give him what for which ended up me being in trouble with the police. So I starting living in the house on my own and went through a lot of pain and a lot of JD. She went to live at her mums and from what I know she didn’t do anything more with the other fella.
Due to the fact I love her we starting seeing each other again and 4months later she started to move back in and we decided to go away for a weekend which was good. Things were getting better I was beginning to forget and I stopped checking her phone because I couldn’t trust her I was doing this every other day. Which she knew about but then she started saying I had to trust her.
1 week after coming back from the weekend away the affection I was receiving from her had gone her attitude had changed and I questioned her. The other bloke had been texting her again saying he loved her which she hasn’t told him back but has admitted to me she still has feelings for him.
So at this point right now I’m living with my girlfriend who is telling me she loves me sees a future with me but has these feelings for another bloke which I don’t know what to do as I love her.