lileeob
Apr 22, 2013, 06:31 PM
Okay this is a really messed up story. But this guy I used to date awhile ago, lets just say he likes to fight. He's also slightly psychotic, making up stories constantly like that I broke into his house and stole his moms jewellery. He always tries to get me in trouble and once last year he gave me the finger on the street and I threw a empty water bottle at him and he called 911 to have me arrested and charged for that. Needless to say it was thrown out.
He is also close to a girl I used to be friends with. She's bipolar and has a nack for acting like she is the best. She sent me this rude message, putting me down calling me names and also talking about stuff that I have no clue about (im assuming stuff that my ex made up)
So the other night I was out drinking and this ex was texting me as we have recently started talking again. Out of nowhere he sends me a picture of some girls boobs (also I'm sure this isn't allowed in the first place without her consent and I doubt he had it) it had his name of them. I was shocked.. crying.. hurt... I wanted nothing to do with him but also had some fun of my own and sent him a picture of me licking some skinny guys nipple? Hot much? I know.. besides the point (lol just kidding by the way) it was more weird than anything.
So after telling him to leave me alone. He starts bringing up this girl, (not the one in the photo, the one I used to be friends with) and he says things like Her boobs are better than yours. She's hotter. She's nicer cooler smarter etc just being a jerk. He continues saying she hates me and its obvious why bla bla bla that they both hate me and that I'm a loser etc. I said I could have you both sued (but being drunk and not able to text functionally) I wrote something that kind of looked like... pretty bad. I never black out and remember everything so I'm sure I meant to say something more along the lines of I could have you both sued but it just came out wrong and after having enough of hearing all this stuff I just wanted him to shut up. If I want someone to stop talking to me its usually a good chance they will if you threaten them with something, like calling the police or having them charged or sued. Right?
So needless to say he told her I said this. But I swear the sentence looked more like "I codl have you bouth mdjurkerd withoyt adoubt"
So I'm being serious here. There was no other allegations I have no intent on hurting these people nor did I and neither one of them even live in my town.
But the fact is apparently they are under the impression I would have them killed... and she is very mad like I said. I don't think either of them could use the messages as evidence because they incriminate themselves both so badly by making false allegations and causing public mischeif.
Should I be worried? These people have gotten me in trouble before. I live in a small town and I was always one of the "prettyer" girls people have always hated me never wanted me around and boyfriends were always extremely controlling and when I refuse to ackowledge them they go to serious extents to hurt me back.
I also have messages from 2008 to recent of severely hurtful and harassing messages from these people. I deleted the phone conversations as I didn't want to be reminded of someone's nipple ring every time I looked at my texts. So I really have no proof of anything.
Regardless of what I meant to say I had no intent of hurting anyone.
Here is the message that she sent to me
James and I spoke today. He told me how you called him and was a crazy as usual. You say he breaks your heart? That you had future plans with him?But you send him pics of guys you sleep with just to ask him if he knows them.. but then he sends you a pic of a girl and you cry? LOL like can you be anymore of a slutty loser? You have like 5 other boyfriends on the go who are like 35 and older... why would James ever want to be with you after you've been used up by dirty old men? Like your in gross and James wants you to leave him alone. Hes been the niciest person to you despite your mega slut skank behavior. He in drove you to BC-and you me and him were talking then too he called me at college and asked me what to do. Maybe James would like you if you weren't such a whore.
He also sent me the conversation and the stupid pics you sent him. LMAO... I'll be in gtown on and off with my BF all summer and if you approach me or speak of me I'm going ststraight to the police with the specific text or you saying you can have me and James murdered.
The fact that you are obsessed with people that have been in your life for either short or long periods and the fact that you go psycho like that prooves you should be heavily medicated.. I don't reven understand why you aren't in jail yet... must be a rat too. Actually I know you are because I also talk to Roger a lot and he informed me of what you did to him and what you did to Jesse B.
The only reason why these men hang out with you is because they are old and can't get anything else and you are actually willing to suck their k... Like honestly if I was doing all the slutty you do I would at least charge for it... sounds like your perfect career.
And don't even talk to my boyfriend when we go out, he'll smell your stank and tell you to off before you open your dirty mouth.
I have the conversation of last night of you n james and I ALREADY notified the police and they have it too. I also showed them the pics you sent james. AND the threats you made to me and him.
So before you look even more like an idiot you should probably just lose your obsession with james and myself.. n if you get so drunk you don't remember what you do or who you talked to then maybe you should get help with that obvious problem of yours."
For the record I don't have a drinking issue, I work at a bar and we had a huge event that night so after my shift I stayed and drank which I always do responsibly and only on occasion. So again, I have no idea what she is talking about. Also I have always liked older men but I did not know that was a crime? I don't mean old old, just 16 years older... 20 years older was never a big deal to me. I always admired their experience. Well everyone is different and I do not think I deserve to be put down like that for it.
Opinions? What can I do?
He is also close to a girl I used to be friends with. She's bipolar and has a nack for acting like she is the best. She sent me this rude message, putting me down calling me names and also talking about stuff that I have no clue about (im assuming stuff that my ex made up)
So the other night I was out drinking and this ex was texting me as we have recently started talking again. Out of nowhere he sends me a picture of some girls boobs (also I'm sure this isn't allowed in the first place without her consent and I doubt he had it) it had his name of them. I was shocked.. crying.. hurt... I wanted nothing to do with him but also had some fun of my own and sent him a picture of me licking some skinny guys nipple? Hot much? I know.. besides the point (lol just kidding by the way) it was more weird than anything.
So after telling him to leave me alone. He starts bringing up this girl, (not the one in the photo, the one I used to be friends with) and he says things like Her boobs are better than yours. She's hotter. She's nicer cooler smarter etc just being a jerk. He continues saying she hates me and its obvious why bla bla bla that they both hate me and that I'm a loser etc. I said I could have you both sued (but being drunk and not able to text functionally) I wrote something that kind of looked like... pretty bad. I never black out and remember everything so I'm sure I meant to say something more along the lines of I could have you both sued but it just came out wrong and after having enough of hearing all this stuff I just wanted him to shut up. If I want someone to stop talking to me its usually a good chance they will if you threaten them with something, like calling the police or having them charged or sued. Right?
So needless to say he told her I said this. But I swear the sentence looked more like "I codl have you bouth mdjurkerd withoyt adoubt"
So I'm being serious here. There was no other allegations I have no intent on hurting these people nor did I and neither one of them even live in my town.
But the fact is apparently they are under the impression I would have them killed... and she is very mad like I said. I don't think either of them could use the messages as evidence because they incriminate themselves both so badly by making false allegations and causing public mischeif.
Should I be worried? These people have gotten me in trouble before. I live in a small town and I was always one of the "prettyer" girls people have always hated me never wanted me around and boyfriends were always extremely controlling and when I refuse to ackowledge them they go to serious extents to hurt me back.
I also have messages from 2008 to recent of severely hurtful and harassing messages from these people. I deleted the phone conversations as I didn't want to be reminded of someone's nipple ring every time I looked at my texts. So I really have no proof of anything.
Regardless of what I meant to say I had no intent of hurting anyone.
Here is the message that she sent to me
James and I spoke today. He told me how you called him and was a crazy as usual. You say he breaks your heart? That you had future plans with him?But you send him pics of guys you sleep with just to ask him if he knows them.. but then he sends you a pic of a girl and you cry? LOL like can you be anymore of a slutty loser? You have like 5 other boyfriends on the go who are like 35 and older... why would James ever want to be with you after you've been used up by dirty old men? Like your in gross and James wants you to leave him alone. Hes been the niciest person to you despite your mega slut skank behavior. He in drove you to BC-and you me and him were talking then too he called me at college and asked me what to do. Maybe James would like you if you weren't such a whore.
He also sent me the conversation and the stupid pics you sent him. LMAO... I'll be in gtown on and off with my BF all summer and if you approach me or speak of me I'm going ststraight to the police with the specific text or you saying you can have me and James murdered.
The fact that you are obsessed with people that have been in your life for either short or long periods and the fact that you go psycho like that prooves you should be heavily medicated.. I don't reven understand why you aren't in jail yet... must be a rat too. Actually I know you are because I also talk to Roger a lot and he informed me of what you did to him and what you did to Jesse B.
The only reason why these men hang out with you is because they are old and can't get anything else and you are actually willing to suck their k... Like honestly if I was doing all the slutty you do I would at least charge for it... sounds like your perfect career.
And don't even talk to my boyfriend when we go out, he'll smell your stank and tell you to off before you open your dirty mouth.
I have the conversation of last night of you n james and I ALREADY notified the police and they have it too. I also showed them the pics you sent james. AND the threats you made to me and him.
So before you look even more like an idiot you should probably just lose your obsession with james and myself.. n if you get so drunk you don't remember what you do or who you talked to then maybe you should get help with that obvious problem of yours."
For the record I don't have a drinking issue, I work at a bar and we had a huge event that night so after my shift I stayed and drank which I always do responsibly and only on occasion. So again, I have no idea what she is talking about. Also I have always liked older men but I did not know that was a crime? I don't mean old old, just 16 years older... 20 years older was never a big deal to me. I always admired their experience. Well everyone is different and I do not think I deserve to be put down like that for it.
Opinions? What can I do?