onelove2005
Apr 3, 2013, 07:12 PM
We been together since she was 15 and I was 17 we have had are ups and downs. But now it feel like it all going down it all started last October my girlfriend told me that she was not happy with me anymore that I needed change that need to give her more time and show her more love , we need to stop fighting, at this time I was going to school and I was under lot of stress, but I love her so I committed myself to change I saw what I was doing wrong I change give her more time of my time I showed her how much I really do love her did everything right she even started to realize that had changed even all friends told her that I had changed so started have more fun we even went camping trip we had great time but week later around super bowl she told me that she love me but she need a break to miss me to feel like she can't let me go and to let go of our pass she tell me that she can't let go of our pass she's never let go.I've asked her many time just let it go that we can't ever have a good relationship with out her letting go it was like a crazy pass it was not like I cheated on her or hit her nothing like that I lover her too much,it more like I went out with my friends and would lie about it at this time she was really jealous at the for nothing I never showed her anything to be jealous about,and for a long time I was the main thing in her life she did not have to many friends and I would ask her do not make me the main thing in your life you need to have more then just me,plus I was young and I did not know how to deal with that I did not know how to be some one ever at all times and for that I made her cry a lot it was not what I wanted to do but really did not know how to be her everything but I never stop showing her how much I lover her , I know I did hurt her. So we take a break for about three weeks we did not see each other but we did talk one day she call me tell me she miss me so we start hanging out again we had a lot of fun together ever thing was going great I even tried to propose with a ring and everything she stop me half way into it told me that this is not are time she want to get marred but we need to fix our problem now she asked me for a break again for a month this time no call in or texting we put down rule it not about dating or talking to other about let the pass go she really can't let it go try tell her to do couple counseling she tell me she just not read for that she really need to clear her mind up. I real don't know what to do any more if I just push her to far and it over or if she really love me and need time to let go the pass