View Full Version : Pragnent,living with my boy friend no money
blackrose1996
Apr 2, 2013, 12:05 PM
I am a 17 year old girl who is 5 months pregnant, I live with my boyfriend and his adopted mother. Now we are in a bit of a problem and we having no idea what to do or how we can fix it. Now my boyfriends father left his mother after 25 years and he will not help us with in come or anything, the house we live in is about $600 a month and my boyfriends mother only gets maybe $500 with her penchion, now my boyfriend and I want to move but we don't want to leave his mother do to of her health and emotional problems and we don't know what to do could u help us?
LearningAsIGo
Apr 2, 2013, 12:31 PM
Different resources are available to you depending on where you live, how much combined income each member of the household makes, etc. One program in my area reduces rent based on how much you can afford but you may have to move into a specific housing development.
Are you only in need of housing assistance or other things such as medical benefits or food?
Search these programs for your state:
WIC (Women Infant Children) food assistance
Medicaid (medical benefits
Rental Assistance in ______(state you live)____
Reduced Housing in ______(state you live)____
Good luck
blackrose1996
Apr 2, 2013, 12:52 PM
The many problem is food and meds and money for a house etc
Wondergirl
Apr 2, 2013, 12:57 PM
Call the township or county human services office, call area churches, call the reference desk at your public library to find out about more services to help. You need to connect with a county social worker.
blackrose1996
Apr 2, 2013, 01:20 PM
Thank you for that information I just wish I new I've we should move or if we should stay I'm just so confused right now
Wondergirl
Apr 2, 2013, 01:41 PM
Does your boyfriend have a job? Where would you move to? Do you get along with his mother? If you do, it seems the best way to do this is to stay where you are for now, for her sake as well as for saving money's sake.
blackrose1996
Apr 2, 2013, 02:06 PM
He can't work for another 3 months do to of a broking back (not bad enugh he can't more just wears a back brace) his adopted mother and I get a long fine that's not the problem the problem is none of us can work and or get in come and my bfs adopted dad left and won't help
Wondergirl
Apr 2, 2013, 02:10 PM
What country are you in? Certainly there is government help/disability for you and the mom.
blackrose1996
Apr 2, 2013, 02:57 PM
I'm in canada new bruswick grand manan
Wondergirl
Apr 2, 2013, 02:58 PM
Have you checked into government help and disability? If not, call your public library's reference desk for help in figuring out what to do from here (but first make a list of questions to ask).
Grand Manan Library
1144 Route 776
Grand Manan, N.B.
E5G 4E8
Tel: (506) 662-7099
blackrose1996
Apr 2, 2013, 05:17 PM
We've tried incomes but I have to be 18 and séance we live under his moms roof he has to be 21 and she has a penchion
teacherjenn4
Apr 2, 2013, 06:00 PM
We've tryed incomes but I have to be 18 and seance we live under his moms roof he has to be 21 and she has a penchion
Is there some reason why you haven't been working?
blackrose1996
Apr 2, 2013, 07:02 PM
I have moved around so much and I don't have a s.I.n number pluss there is no one hyering on the island
Wondergirl
Apr 2, 2013, 07:05 PM
Call the library tomorrow, okay?
blackrose1996
Apr 2, 2013, 07:35 PM
Ok I will thank you
Wondergirl
Apr 2, 2013, 07:38 PM
Ok I will thank you
And post here afterwards. I want to know what they said.
blackrose1996
Apr 2, 2013, 07:49 PM
Will do