My ex husband came to my house to pick up our sobbing for a few hours so that he and his new wife could take him and their child to hunt Easter eggs. So I was in my sons room getting him dressed and once we were finished I walked into the living room and caught my ex husband looking through my underwear that was in a laundry basket next to my couch. I asked him what he was doing and he told me that he wanted to see what I was working with! I wasn't sure how to take it but it made me uncomfortable! I told him that my personal life is not his concern. I was really sure what to do about it or if I was just over reacting. I myself am I engaged but my husband is deployed at the moment so he couldn't really help. Should I ignore it or what? My ex and I never talk unless it is about our son sO this was very strange... Then today he texted me to thank me for letting him see him even though it wasn't his weekend, and I responded that next time if he couldn't respect my privacy he would have to wait in his car. Please help.

Sounds like you dealt with it.

Next time make him wait outside and bring your son to the car.

No reason to allow ex in home, I always picked up son at front door. Or son came out to car and I waited in car