My daughter is 22. She has two children, I love them dearly. My daughter is going through a tough time, basically she is telling me what to do if she doesn't get her way, for instance, no matter what I'm doing she wants me to have the kids,if I can't she starts yelling at me saying that I'm a bad mom.When me and her dad divorced he got the kids, he ended up committing suicide. Ive made mistakes but I've told her I was sorry, so I end up enabling her so much she tries to be the mom. I am very tired and stressed, help!

It seems simple - grit your teeth and stop enabling her.