I'm a girl and I'm bisexual and I'm in love with my best friend who is also a girl and have a boyfriend. But from the first day of school (this year is my first year in this school) she asked me go out with her to buy some clothes when we didn't really much talk together and day by day we were closer and hug very tight and always sit next to each other and when she's sad or have pain in her body like period pain, she hug me too long until the break time ends, and everyone else think maybe we are together because of this things (the way they look at us).

I'm always there whenever she would need a shoulder to lean or cry on. We are so close. But she always say that how much she like her boyfriend and how sweet he is but in the other side she say to me you're stronger than him (because when she hold my hand and I carry her hand she thinks I can do it better than her bf) and also she says I have soft hands and skin like her boyfriend and she always say things that I'm like her boyfriend or better than him. And by the way she sent me about things like masturbate or lesbian jokes.

Well next Friday I have a sleepover with 2 of my friends, (we are all girls) but before we sleep there are some guys with us too to hang out with them and spend time and I think in sleepover we'll be drunk. When we are going to sleep it's going to be only me, her, and one of our close friend who is also a girl.

Can someone please give me an idea how to kiss her that night, I really want to feel her lips on my lips, but nothing more, because when she talk about she don't want to have sex with her boyfriend until she's 18 (we're 16) because she's young, that means she don't want to have sex with no one until that age! I just want to kiss her while I'm hugging her tight!

She's amazing and adorable and sexy and she's something special!

Girls this time is for study and building future plans. And you have to wait to understand your personality better for few years. You are growing up and things will be different after few years, so hold your horse and study.

I think it would help if you learn to control your urges and not cross the line of good behavior just because of those feelings. Bi, gay, or straight doesn't matter at all when you are young and caught up in intense feelings and hormones. I understand you want to express those feelings and that's natural at any age, but now is the time to learn self control, and self respect.

You could lose a friend by acting inappropriately at a sleep over, or anywhere else for that matter. Don't let those hormones get you in trouble. Does she even know you are bi? Does anyone?