I have two kids. My wife does not love me. She always think of herself. She wants attention but can not give same to others as I'm Indian. She never look after me and use bad language to me without my fault. Sometime I feel she is in depression but how to help? I am very helpless as I can't leave her, my kids are very small. Please suggest.

Will she go with you to a marriage counselor? Talking with someone, both of you together, sometimes helps. Maybe talk with a Minister, Priest, Pastor? I do wish you good luck.

How does being Indian enter into this? What am I missing?

How does being Indian enter into this? What am I missing?
Males are the kings and princes of the Indian household.

Find out what her problem is and work on it together Just talk about it.

I thought this meant SHE can't give love/attention to HIM because he is Indian (or something): "She wants attention but can not give same to others as I'm Indian."