How do I get over the father of my baby. I went to new orleans for my mother death he didn't go and when I came back he had a whole other relationship with this women I talked to her and she said she would leave him alone but didn't now I can't trust her lying butt or his lying axx now we are still in the same house how do I get over him we been together for three year may 26 of this year how can I get over the pass

You feel good about yourself in that you are making a decision that is in your best interest. And that decision is you are moving on and leaving him behind.

I am 71 yrs old, divorced first 7 yrs of marriage, then re-married for 30 years, now a widower. We never forget many things in our lives. But, we can learn to live with it, and not let it take over our lives.
Move on, and Smile. You will eventually find someone else. I would also see about getting child support! Maybe you can get help from a free legal service in your area, if there is one. I would move out and go somewhere else to live, away from him.

Insensitive pig... I'm sorry but you have to get over this guy. Right now you and your baby is the most important thing. You said he is father of your baby, are you pregnant or already have child? In any case this guy must understand that he can not get away with his responsibilities. If you are working then you can take descion. You can get over him because you certainly don't want to spend your life with such person who can not stand by you. You can not forget somebody but you have to make better choices in life. You can't let him ruin you and your baby's life. I'm sure you will get over this, good luck.

You have to know you deserve better than him. Know you are worthy of a good, healthy relationship built on trust and real love. If you can accept this you can move on from him. Yes he will always be your child's father but that does not mean someone can't eventually fill the role of the child's father better than him. Move out and give each other space so you can really think about things. Make a list of all the wrongs he has done to you and read over it. You don't deserve that and you will find someone else! Just be patient and pray about it.

Why would you want to stay with someone who cheated on your while you were away for your mom's death? I just don't understand that.
Leave this guy alone, think of the pain and the tackiness of what he did. Make sure you get child support and move on.