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200194
Mar 20, 2007, 11:58 AM
[B]I am 13 and I like a boy, he has moved from liverpool. I reli like him but am scared to tell him in case he knocks me down.:confused: What do I do:confused: I am reli scared because he is quite popular and if he says no properly everyone will know.I reli like him and I am flirting with him (so is he) I don't know what to do!!
Please please can somebody help me with this!! I am sure its love!!
Kaddock
Mar 20, 2007, 12:16 PM
Make sure that you guard yourself and your feelings. You are still young and you have your entire life to find love. What you are experiencing is most likely "puppy love". Now don't mistake me, any kind of feelings such as these can be very pleasant and even good for your soul, just don't take any of them lightly, or rush in to anything that these feelings make you want to do. Maybe you will find true love with this boy, but those kind of deep emotions take a little more time to develop. Let me give you a hint though: boys can be very fickle! If he is flirting with you, he may just want to take advantage of you. Feel the situation out and use your common sense! I can't stress that enough. Let your head and heart guide you. Try to pull back a bit, and see if he comes on heavier. For example, don't be so flirtsy for a couple of days and see how he reacts... Does he want more of your attention? Does he continue flirting, and seem confused as to why you aren't? If this is the case, it's a good bet that he is interested too!! If you do this experiment, and he seems to lose interest... at that point maybe you should rethink things. Feel free to do what you feel is best, I am just letting you know a couple of things that would have helped me when I was your age! Hope this helps. :)
tristin
Mar 20, 2007, 12:16 PM
You are 13 its not love, but if you never tell him then you'll never know if he likes you
kristynn
Mar 20, 2007, 12:58 PM
You're young. It seems like you have a huge crush on this guy and that's fine. :) You cannot tell yet if it's truly love yet...
I wouldn't say "go and tell him that you like him" but if you can, be around him, talk to him as if you would talk to a friend or someone you know... get to know him... see how he responds. It seems like he's a new guy from another city, so it's OK for you to get to know him, yet kind of hinding your real reasons. But that's OK, isn't it? You'll know if he likes you back if you pay attention to the way he responds.
Follow the advice given by Kaddock as well. It will help you see his reaction... and help you find out how he feels about you.
You say he's flirting with you, are you sure of that? Can you tell us a little bit how does he flirt with you? How do you flirt with him? It might help us see the big picture.
One advice though, don't rush things. Take it slow... Good luck! Let us know how it goes. :)
Emily94
Mar 20, 2007, 02:03 PM
OK I think you shouldn't give up but don't make a big move till you know he likes you it is really hard to pick yourself up after a rejection expesual when you thought the guy liked you! So just make sure first!
askemo
Mar 22, 2007, 02:25 PM
OK this is what you should do... im 11 and I had 9 girl friends so think I know a lot about love you should ALLWAYS be close to him let him know you love him not by telling him by showing him if you really love him you'd never give up on him even if everyone would know about it! And do some partys and invite him do truth or false make someone say you have to kiss whatever is name is but not a regular kiss or american or france if you'll do it good hell love you more
Try fastion like billabong all-star shoes nice jeans and stuff..
Emily94
Mar 22, 2007, 06:00 PM
Ok askemo dude I don't think sahe wants him to like her for her fashion but for her and don't give useless tips like that!
alizeblu
Mar 24, 2007, 02:30 PM
I never knew love could be found at 13.
WHAT! At 11 too! What is this world coming to?
need_of_advice
Mar 24, 2007, 04:52 PM
[B]I am 13 and i like a boy, he has moved from liverpool. I reli like him but am scared to tell him incase he knocks me down.:confused: What do i do:confused: I am reli scared because he is quite popular and if he says no properly everyone will know.I reli like him and i am flirting with him (so is he) I don't know what to do !!!!!
Please please can somebody help me with this !!!!! I am sure its love !!!!!!
Yeah I can help if he's flirting with you he must like you you see I'm de owner of this accounts brother I no about boys since I am one take my advice tell him in some way like I lyk you then quickly add on jokes jookes or something ask hiim out or get a friend to ask him out to go out somewhere as a friend hell prob say yes try it out
alizeblu
Apr 2, 2007, 01:10 PM
^^^^^^
Huh?
serapis
Apr 3, 2007, 06:28 AM
[B]I am 13 and i like a boy, he has moved from liverpool. I reli like him but am scared to tell him incase he knocks me down.:confused: What do i do:confused: I am reli scared because he is quite popular and if he says no properly everyone will know.I reli like him and i am flirting with him (so is he) I don't know what to do !!!!!
Please please can somebody help me with this !!!!! I am sure its love !!!!!!
Hear my advice kid confesing your love to that person will eazze your mind and you won't regret your still young you can find love anywhre
Get to know him more before you make a move!
Enjoy being friends you are all so young!
serapis
Apr 3, 2007, 06:32 AM
Hear my advice kid confesing your love to that person will eazze your mind and you won't regret your still young you can find love anywhre
hear my advice kid confesing your love to that person will eazze your mind and you wont regret your still young you can find love anywhre
Its easier said than done!
Besides she is only 13... give her some credit for being slightly timid!
I wouldn't say anything until you get to know this person more, you don't want to make a fool of yourself.. even just to ease your mind... it won't!
alizeblu
Apr 3, 2007, 09:01 AM
Heh...
eazy123
Apr 3, 2007, 10:55 PM
[B]I am 13 and i like a boy, he has moved from liverpool. I reli like him but am scared to tell him incase he knocks me down.:confused: What do i do:confused: I am reli scared because he is quite popular and if he says no properly everyone will know.I reli like him and i am flirting with him (so is he) I don't know what to do !!!!!
Please please can somebody help me with this !!!!! I am sure its love !!!!!!
These people can shut up it isn't love I'm a 16 year old guy and I've been in your crushes position hundreds of times and trust me he won't knock you down or anything like that girls use 2 think that about me to, trust me the worst that will happen if you don't already you'll get his number