My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 4 years now. Sex was years ago was nearly every night and it was great. Now it's hardly anything. Practically non existent. He tells me he's just not in the mood. I'm buying new sexy outfits to try and get him interested but nothing. Is it me? Does he not love me anymore? He's been really sweet saying things like 'you forgot to kiss me today' but when it comes to sex he refuses point blank I really don't understand! :'(

We can suggest work problems, health problems, but he's the only one who knows. Ask him.