My girlfriend is Australian and I'm from the UK. We currently live in East London and have been together for 7 months, although this has been an intense period where we have been living together for 5 out of the 7 months. She has been homesick for so long, even before she met me which I was unaware of at the time as she didn't say anything to me about her feelings. None the less we have fallen in love massively and we've both been so unhappy because we want to be together more than anything in the world but she's homesick and I think I'll feel the same if I go back with her. We've spoken about moving to the US which is in the middle but I think we'll just be taking our problems to another location and be stuck in the same predicament.

We've both been unhappy and the seemingly easy thing to do would be to split up and move on but we are so madly in love that neither of us can do it. Does anyone have any advice?

Is there some reason you live in East London? Since you're not homesick, can you live in Australia?

Keep talking about it and figure it out as a couple. Figure out what would make you both happy. That's what love is about. Lust fade, love grows.

Why can't she visit and come back after a vacation?