I met this guy and we hit it off really well, then I feel sick and because the doctors didn't know what it was I was always at the doctor or taking test whenever he wanted to meet up. I said that we can meet up when I get a bit better then I got sick with something else which he understood made my life difficult. A few weeks later he told me that he loved me then after that stopped calling or texting. He has finally told me what was bugging him and it was that we never meet up. Do I continue trying to have this relationship and try harder or leave it?

More importantly are you healthy and fit? Try to maintain your health and take good care of yourself. Second thing a person who can not stand by you during difficult times, will only create problems for you. The guy doesn't seems enough responsible or caring. Don't get into this, leave the guy, you deserve better. Good luck.

Are you so sick you can never have visitors? Not the perfect date, but some bonding through talking would help.

What's been stopping these visits?