I've known my ex for years. And 6 months ago we fall head over heels in love. We planning to get married and have kids. Our families are close and everyone was over the moon when we got together. Yet he suddenly end it yesterday says it money and distance and we won't be getting back together. He promised that there isn't anyone else and that he still loves me. And he wants us to be friends because he can't bare to lose me completely.

Even his mum has contacted me as she doesn't understand it and thinks he could be confused as he has issues with work and money. She thinks he doesn't know what he wants. He gone completely cold on me now like he doesn't care. I'm floored we were so happy and in love. Even breaking up with me he said he still loved me and it wasn't our faults. I don't understand any of it.

You should understand that is it very okay to be floored by this.

He sounds like he has cold feet and hit the panic button. Or maybe there is another major life event that you don't know about - financial or something.

Give him his space but in doing so I would break off all communication. Being friends is not an option because it would only tear you apart more.

See that's the problem our families are close he is the godfather to my cousin baby. I have to face him next month at his daughter birthday. Even his mum has been in contact with me. To say she is sorry and she doesn't know what is going on with Him at moment and he made biggest mistake of his life and give him time. Yesterday he was all I hate saying goodbye it kills us both. One min he like it seems we are friends more now but next min he was all don't think it's not hurting me cause it is. And don't think I don't love you because I do. Our realationship is perfect. I love you so much there isn't anyone else as I love you. I'm so confused and completely lost

I know his problem. You squeezed lots of plans into 6 months, and got to the marriage part way to quickly for him. Leave him alone for a while and see what happens in a year, or TWO.

Sorry, you should have dated and have fun before you go with planning a future talk.

Too much, too fast, crash and burn!

So took everyone advices and decided to stop chasing my ex. I removed him off Facebook thinking clean break is best. Only he got mad at me. Decided to message me this morning saying he is confused and we ended up fighting because turns out someone has been spreading lies saying I said he is cheated on me. Which isn't the true it's that's I've always stuck up for him and still do till this say. But he says I should have spoken to him. Hello he broke up with!! I've had his mum talking to me and she telling me he hurting and now thinks all my family hate. Bit I'm defending him constantly to everyone. So how does suddenly turn into my fault. IM giving him space because I don't want to push him. IM so confused as can't do right for doing wrong

Just because now he is confused and blaming you doesn't make him right. Nor does arguing with someone who you are making a clean break from right either.

Just as you deleted his face book, eliminate and avoid even talking to him. That would be a clean break, and he no longer can push your buttons right? Goes for his mom, and family too!! No more contact with any of them.

So do this right and quit half stepping!