melonheadz
Mar 10, 2013, 06:41 PM
My girlfriend of 1 year just broke up with me one week ago. She is 18 and a senior in high school and I’m 19 and a sophomore in college. When we were together we never fought and were in a really loving relationship. When she broke up with me she told me she still loved me so much and that I was her best friend and that she still wanted to be together when she comes to university in 5 months. She said she still wants to be best friends and keep our love alive but that it’s too hard for her during her last semester of high school to keep up with our relationship.
We tried staying close and being friends the first few days, but it hurt me too much to know how much I still loved her and couldn’t be with her. I tried to win her back a few times over this past week to no avail. So, I told her I probably needed to stop talking to her for a little while to work out my emotions. That was yesterday.
Today she continues to send me snapchats (picture messages) even though I told her that seeing her is just going to make me continue to love her and that I couldn’t be friends with her if I was in love with her.
What do I do? I want to be with her more than anything when she comes here, but in the meantime I can't stand to hold onto her while I can’t have her. What is her goal? Why does she insist on wanting me to hold onto her but won’t try to keep the relationship alive? Should I respond to her messages?
We tried staying close and being friends the first few days, but it hurt me too much to know how much I still loved her and couldn’t be with her. I tried to win her back a few times over this past week to no avail. So, I told her I probably needed to stop talking to her for a little while to work out my emotions. That was yesterday.
Today she continues to send me snapchats (picture messages) even though I told her that seeing her is just going to make me continue to love her and that I couldn’t be friends with her if I was in love with her.
What do I do? I want to be with her more than anything when she comes here, but in the meantime I can't stand to hold onto her while I can’t have her. What is her goal? Why does she insist on wanting me to hold onto her but won’t try to keep the relationship alive? Should I respond to her messages?