View Full Version : 8 months pregnant and lonely.
pirateme12
Mar 9, 2013, 03:47 AM
I have a fiancé and I'm 8 months pregnant. I feel alone. He is a great guy and I love him but I feel like I'm fighting for his attention. He says I always want to argue, so he can't give me good attention. He doesn't get I'm upset easily. I'm pregnant and crazy but I feel like I'm going through this pregnancy all alone. He doesn't go to the appointments, he doesn't want to feel our son kick. He just seems less and less interested in me as time progresses. I already have a two year old by another man. Now I just feel stupid, and I feel I don't deserve love because I'm moody and I just feel like I'm not a good happy person. I probably bring others down. Open for advice but also needed to vent.
jacobm28
Mar 9, 2013, 04:12 AM
It could be that he's freaking out or it hasn't really hit him yet.. these days guys are very skeptical and SOMEWHERE deep in their mind.. we all kind of think that it may be possible that its not his.. especially if there's kids around from a previous relationship, hope this helps and good luck to u.
talaniman
Mar 9, 2013, 10:07 AM
You sound like a typical pregnant female to me but he sounds very young and immature. Maybe the anwer is the support of family, and friends because its obvious he is not up to the task of child birth.
Pregnant females may require a high level of care and attention and he doesn't know how. Have a male friend who knows talk to him.