motop40
Mar 1, 2013, 06:03 PM
Hi guys. I'm new to this forum and looking for help and advise. So here goes been dating this girl for 3years (2years long distance) been nothing short of amazing both sides. We've over come major obstacles in our lives and built really strong communication lines. We are both very intune to each another.
Spoke about marriage many times and did make plans. We both turning 26 this year. My plan was to propose to her this year.
She is doing her Honors in Psychology all 8 subjects including 42assignments. Her mum is putting pressure on her as her mum got married at an early age.
Gf gets sad, depressed, annoyed and angry when she sees all her school friends getting married and having kids and she is not married yet.
We got into a fight she was angry And She broke up with me saying that she 'wants out' she feels hate and resentment can't deal with us any more as we going no where there's no solid commitment and we've been dating for three years, she can't handle this added pressure Of being in a relationship and feels she needs to be alone and sort her life out and concentrate fully on her studies.
This is the biggest fight we had prior to dec2012 when I broke up with her and then resolved our issues. I blocked and deleted her from all social media and so did she. We both deleted our mutual friends etc.
Prior to this breakup we were more than fine. We worked hard to get to where we are in our relationship and now she wants out. This break up was done over text and I requested if she wants to follow through with her actions she must come and do this face to face. I'm not giving up so easy without knowing that I did all I can.
Help from you guys will be much appreciated.
Spoke about marriage many times and did make plans. We both turning 26 this year. My plan was to propose to her this year.
She is doing her Honors in Psychology all 8 subjects including 42assignments. Her mum is putting pressure on her as her mum got married at an early age.
Gf gets sad, depressed, annoyed and angry when she sees all her school friends getting married and having kids and she is not married yet.
We got into a fight she was angry And She broke up with me saying that she 'wants out' she feels hate and resentment can't deal with us any more as we going no where there's no solid commitment and we've been dating for three years, she can't handle this added pressure Of being in a relationship and feels she needs to be alone and sort her life out and concentrate fully on her studies.
This is the biggest fight we had prior to dec2012 when I broke up with her and then resolved our issues. I blocked and deleted her from all social media and so did she. We both deleted our mutual friends etc.
Prior to this breakup we were more than fine. We worked hard to get to where we are in our relationship and now she wants out. This break up was done over text and I requested if she wants to follow through with her actions she must come and do this face to face. I'm not giving up so easy without knowing that I did all I can.
Help from you guys will be much appreciated.