I have a crush on this one guy that some people say he's a jerk. The thing is, he's really sweet to me and apologizes for everything bad he's done to me and even hugged me twice for a long time. My friends say he doesn't just apologize like that for everyone and that he only sincerely apologizes to me constantly. He's really sweet and nice to me and always flirting with me but sometimes I hear people say he's a player. Should I still fall for him? He makes me really happy and makes my day all better I just don't know if its worth falling for. Please help?

" Fall softly and carry a big stick "

" Trust but verify"

You say he hugs you and apologizes for everything bad he's done to you. So he's done bad things to you but you ask us if you should "fall for him"... Really now... What kind of stuff did he do? How old are you?

If he has done bad things to you and then apologizes and then does more bad things to you and then apologizes and then does more bad things to you... (you get my drift?)

No, he isn't for you. Raise your sights and decide you are worth more than what he wants to give.

It's not that I say believe them or not believe them. Be open :) Like trust on what you feel about him if you think he is not a player then go for it but remember to once in a while look at the side of those people who say that he is a player. Observe the guy if he really is but if you can't find something that would prove on what they say against the guy then be happy go for it! :)

I would be cautious, some times people believe in things that they hear. Don't do that. Find out for yourself. Be friends until you REALLY get to know him. Then if you want maybe try for a relationship. But it also depends on how old you are. If you are younger than 15 I would ask your parents opinion but really permission.