I'm in a same sex relationship , and lately I've been looking for clues to see if my boyfriend is screwing around on me, I went looking in his car and I found pack of condoms. Not sure what to do

Where is the trust? Where is the communication? How can two people be boyfriends without either? I am living with my boyfriend and I would never go snooping around. If he is not cheating on you and finds out, what do you think his reaction is going to be? Maybe the condoms have been there for a year. Open the lines of communication with your boyfriend and talk about your insecurities. Two boyfriends should be way past trust and communication issues if you are truly boyfriends. If he is cheating on you learn from this. You need to know a person well before you become boyfriends.

Thanks Oliver ,
I guess there are gay men or men out there that one is not enough, I find that the Internet is ruining a lot relationships, I guess if there's no trust anymore, maybe it's time

So then are you settling just because you want a boyfriend? How long have you two been together? And you don't know yet if he is cheating. Do you live with him?

We have been together for over 5yrs, and I do love him, but there are people out there, thant one is not enough. I don't think thereºs another guy, but I think he is just fooling around

"I dont think thereºs another guy, but i think he is just fooling around" - Pedro - fooling around would be another guy and that isn't acceptable. So have you communicated your concerns? Are you the type that gets paranoid every month? Not accusing but I know there are guys out there like that. I guess I am lucky since I work and live with my boyfriend.

I have mention a couple of times, when I know something is up, and he just thinks Iºm mad.
I guess when your partner has passowards on their mob, that's when my mind goes wondering, if people don't have anything to hide why do it. I had the guts to call one of the mob numbers I found out. And I rang it and it was another guy witch he had got in touch on squirt, witch is a hook up for guys wanting casual sex, I hate all these websites that destroy peoples lifes. they are all very tempting websites for gay men to fool around and I am sick of it, thereºs no more hope out there

I disagree. It isn't the websites out there; it is the guys making those decisions. If you are with someone who is fooling around behind your back then you need to dump him. I wouldn't stay with anyone that cheated on me.

I am currently with an incredible man. Trust me, there is hope out there. You have to pick the right one and you need communication in that relationship.