I just can't write this without crying. My parents hate me, and I know it. They slapped me and yell at me when every I get bad grades or do accidents (drop stuff, forget to do take out the trash etc.) My dad barely talks to me. Everyday when I get home he is in his room typing up on the computer, and barely speaks. My mom is the same. They never love me, or try to comfort me when I have a hard time. I just hate it. Why am I destined to this life? What did I do? What can I do?

They're beating you and being verbally abusive as well. Call CPS, they'll come and assess the situation. If they find that you're in danger they'll remove you from the home and place you in foster care.

Now, let's hear the truth.

Do you do chores at home, make your bed every morning, do homework without being told time and again, get good grades or at least try your best, ask if there is anything extra you can do to help out, maybe bake a batch of cookies or cook a simple meal to help out now and then, sweep out the garage, wash up the bathroom without being told?

They don't let me use a phone. They are so strict to me. I can't go outside anywhere, nor can I play with my friends.

They don't let me use a phone. They are so strict to me. I can't go outside anywhere, nor can I play with my friends.

So contact CPS via email. They obviously let you use the computer.

Now, let's hear the truth.

Do you do chores at home, make your bed every morning, do homework without being told time and again, get good grades, ask if there is anything extra you can do to help out, maybe bake a batch of cookies or cook a simple meal to help out now and then, sweep out the garage, wash up the bathroom without being told?

I do most of the times, but some times I just forget. But usually I do it after they scold me. But I'm just sick and tired of them yelling.

I do most of the times, but some times i just forget. But usually I do it after they scold me. But im just sick and tired of them yelling.

Parents yell, especially if children don't listen. We are human too you know.

The yelling isn't an issue. The fact that they beat you, which you stated they do, is an issue. Physical abuse is against the law.

So contact CPS. If it's as bad as you say, they're the only ones that can help you.

Why do they allow you to use the computer, and not the phone?

I'm guessing you are about 9 years old and maybe want something they don't want to give you, like an iPod or tablet?

I do most of the times, but some times i just forget. But usually I do it after they scold me. But im just sick and tired of them yelling.
There's a solution for this -- do what they tell you and right away and cheerfully, and then they won't yell and, if you do a fantastic job, you will even get a smile and a hug.

Parents yell, especially if children don't listen. We are human too you know.

The yelling isn't an issue. The fact that they beat you, which you stated they do, is an issue. Physical abuse is against the law.

So contact CPS. If it's as bad as you say, they're the only ones that can help you.

Why do they allow you to use the computer, and not the phone?

I can use my dad's laptop for school work. And also they beat me for getting bad grade and for a reason. I am saying that this is too extreme and what should I do. They hit me for a reason, but I think its too much.

There's a solution for this -- do what they tell you and right away and cheerfully, and then they won't yell and, if you do a fantastic job, you will even get a smile and a hug.

WG, the yelling isn't what concerns me. The OP stated that they beat her. If that's true, then this child needs help.

If she's unwilling to call or email CPS on her own, I think the mods have to take matters into their own hands. Her location can be tracked very easily. If she can't call and she's in danger, it's our responsibility to make sure she gets help. We can have the police there in a matter of minutes.

So really, it's up to her. If she's telling the whole truth, and she's too afraid to do anything about it, then we have to.

There's a solution for this -- do what they tell you and right away and cheerfully, and then they won't yell and, if you do a fantastic job, you will even get a smile and a hug.

Ok I will try it.. Thanks!

I can use my dad's laptop for school work. And also they beat me for getting bad grade and for a reason. I am saying that this is too extreme and what should I do. They hit me for a reason, but I think its too much.
Like I said earlier, there's a solution for this -- do what they tell you and right away and cheerfully, and then they won't yell and, if you do a fantastic job, you will even get a smile and a hug.

WG, the yelling isn't what concerns me. The OP stated that they beat her. If that's true, then this child needs help.

If she's unwilling to call or email CPS on her own, I think the mods have to take matters into their own hands. Her location can be tracked very easily. If she can't call and she's in danger, it's our responsibility to make sure she gets help. We can have the police there in a matter of minutes.

So really, it's up to her. If she's telling the whole truth, and she's too afraid to do anything about it, then we have to.

I don't want to take something too extreme. I want to fix this first. There are some cases where they do listen to me. Like I asked them right now and they said they will in 5 minutes. (talk to me about my problems)

I can use my dad's laptop for school work. And also they beat me for getting bad grade and for a reason. I am saying that this is too extreme and what should I do. They hit me for a reason, but I think its too much.

You're on the computer right now, and you're not using it for school work. You're using it to get help on this site. So send a letter to CPS in your area.

We can track your location. If they're beating you, that's child abuse. We can have the police at your house in minutes.

WG, the yelling isn't what concerns me. The OP stated that they beat her. If that's true, then this child needs help.

If she's unwilling to call or email CPS on her own, I think the mods have to take matters into their own hands. Her location can be tracked very easily.
Yes, I have already tracked her location.

What should I tell them. They said now they will try to listen. But what should I ask from them in specific?

By beat, I don't mean like hit with a rod or soemthing. It's a slap. Sorry if its not clear

I dont want to take something too extreme. I want to fix this first. There are some cases where they do listen to me. Like i asked them right now and they said they will in 5 minutes. (talk to me about my problems)

There is no way to fix child abuse other than to remove the child from the home, put the parents in jail, and hope that while they're in jail, they get help.

You told us they beat you. That is an extreme situation, and the only way to handle an extreme situation is to do something extreme.

If you won't call CPS, we will.

Yes, I have already tracked her location.

I don't want this to happen. I just want somehow to make my parents understand

There is no way to fix child abuse other than to remove the child from the home, put the parents in jail, and hope that while they're in jail, they get help.

You told us they beat you. That is an extreme situation, and the only way to handle an extreme situation is to do something extreme.

If you won't call CPS, we will.

I think its working. My dad said he will listen. Can I contact back inlike 2 weeks before we make a rash decision?

What should I tell them. They said now they will try to listen. but what should I ask from them in specific?
Ask them to make a short and simple list of things they want you to do every day -- maybe five things, like, make your bed, make your school lunch (the night before?), fold any clean laundry and help put it away, do homework without arguing. Are they interested in making a good list for you?

By beat, i dont mean like hit with a rod or soemthing. Its a slap. Sorry if its not clear

Now your story is changing.

You said that they beat you. Beating is child abuse. A slap is discipline, not abuse. So which is it?

Are you changing your story because you didn't realize we wouldn't walk away from this, we would make sure you got help? Or are you changing your story because you lied?

If you lied about this, what else are you lying about?

Guys my parents said that it was all because of a lie that I told. Its not their fault Its mine. Im sorry for posting this and wasting your time. Please its my fault. Can we take this down. I solved this issue during my talk.

Now your story is changing.

You said that they beat you. Beating is child abuse. A slap is discipline, not abuse. So which is it?

Are you changing your story because you didn't realize we wouldn't walk away from this, we would make sure you got help? Or are you changing your story because you lied?

If you lied about this, what else are you lying about?

It was a slap. Sorry I did not really know the difference

I want to hear from you again by Tuesday evening, to let us know things are improving. I will be waiting and watching for your post on this thread.

Now your story is changing.

You said that they beat you. Beating is child abuse. A slap is discipline, not abuse. So which is it?

Are you changing your story because you didn't realize we wouldn't walk away from this, we would make sure you got help? Or are you changing your story because you lied?

If you lied about this, what else are you lying about?

I think I should have rephrased my question. They slap me for like not following what they say. I just wanted to know why they were doing it. And how I could fix it

I want to hear from you again by Tuesday evening, to let us know things are improving. I will be waiting and watching for your post on this thread.

Ok they said like each day they would spend 30 minutes takling and seeing if I had any problems. They started to cry as well. Could it be due to my lack of communication with them?

Sorry, I really did not know the difference between beat and slap. They did slap me.

So now my parents said they felt sad (after our talk). They also asked how I wanted to solve this. I said talk with me more. And try to talk it out first before slapping. Do you think I should tell them more?

Ok they said like each day they would spend 30 minutes takling and seeing if i had any problems. They started to cry as well. Could it be due to my lack of communication with them?
It sounds like they might not be clear with instructions, and maybe you aren't being a good listener.

I want to hear from you again by Tuesday evening, to let us know things are improving. I will be waiting and watching for your post on this thread.

Guys my parents said that it was all because of a lie that I told. Its not their fault Its mine. Im sorry for posting this and wasting your time. Please its my fault. Can we take this down. I solved this issue during my talk.

When did your parents tell you this? You've been posting to us all this time with no break.

This can't be taken down. Once you post a thread, it stays unless it goes against site rules. Your thread doesn't go against site rules, so it won't be removed.

My take on this. You posted here because you're ticked off that you didn't get something you wanted, and you wanted someone to feel sorry for you so you told a lie about being abused. When you realized that we could, and would, send CPS and the police to your house because you claimed to be abused, you realized that your lie could get you in big trouble.

So now my parents said they felt sad (after our talk). They also asked how I wanted to solve this. I said talk with me more. And try to talk it out first before slapping. Do you think i should tell them more?
I think you should promise them some things too. Any ideas?

Ask them to make a short and simple list of things they want you to do every day -- maybe five things, like, make your bed, make your school lunch (the night before?), fold any clean laundry and help put it away, do homework without arguing. Are they interested in making a good list for you?

Yea they are. I guess I just misinterperated them. Like my perspective on them was different. And I know they mean it this time since they were so emotionally moved. They said that they would help out a lot.

When did your parents tell you this? You've been posting to us all this time with no break.

This can't be taken down. Once you post a thread, it stays unless it goes against site rules. Your thread doesn't go against site rules, so it won't be removed.

My take on this. You posted here because you're ticked off that you didn't get something you wanted, and you wanted someone to feel sorry for you so you told a lie about being abused. When you realized that we could, and would, send CPS and the police to your house because you claimed to be abused, you realized that your lie could get you in big trouble.

Yea I was kind of pissed and I really did not know the difference between beat and slap till you clarified

Yea i was kind of pissed and I really did not know the difference between beat and slap till you clarified

I'd still like to know when you had this lengthy discussion with your parents, tears were shed, plans were made, when you've been posting with us non stop since you started this thread 30 minutes ago.

When did your parents tell you this? You've been posting to us all this time with no break.

This can't be taken down. Once you post a thread, it stays unless it goes against site rules. Your thread doesn't go against site rules, so it won't be removed.

My take on this. You posted here because you're ticked off that you didn't get something you wanted, and you wanted someone to feel sorry for you so you told a lie about being abused. When you realized that we could, and would, send CPS and the police to your house because you claimed to be abused, you realized that your lie could get you in big trouble.

I just wanted help on how to solve with my parents. They are telling me right now like I told them about how I posted rashly and how I did not mean what I meant. They are looking at your comments, and think that you can help us solve our conflict

I just wanted help on how to solve with my parents. They are telling me right now like i told them about how i posted rashly and how i did not mean what i meant. They are looking at your comments, and think that you can help us solve our conflict
Ask your mom or dad to post a comment here now. I want to talk to one of them.

I'd still like to know when you had this lengthy discussion with your parents, tears were shed, plans were made, when you've been posting with us non stop since you started this thread 30 minutes ago.

See they are not really good with like knowing what to do. So I told them how I posted here, they read the comments and you and the other person's ideas were helpful to them.

Ask your mom or dad to post a comment here now. I want to talk to one of them.

Ok they are both willing to co-operate. They are the ones chatting now

Ok they are both willing to co-operate. They are the ones chatting now
I want one of them to be typing and responding directly to me.

I just wanted help on how to solve with my parents. They are telling me right now like i told them about how i posted rashly and how i did not mean what i meant. They are looking at your comments, and think that you can help us solve our conflict

Ya, not buying it.

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

You lied from the beginning, and you're lying now. Kiddo, we're not your friends, we're not easily fooled. We look at what makes sense, and you going from "I'm being beaten, I'm crying, I want to run away, I need help" to "Everything is fine now, we talked, we cried, we hugged, we worked it all out and they want your help fixing our conflict" in 30 minutes, when there hasn't been so much as a one minute break between your posts, is a bunch of bull!

If you want to lie to someone, lie to someone that's stupid enough to believe you.

Good bye.

I am very grateful for you support for my daughter. See I slapped her since she did not follow what I said. And now she is pissed. I know I have to talk to her about this, but can you give me suggestions just like you gave my daughter some?

Ya, not buying it.

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

You lied from the beginning, and you're lying now. Kiddo, we're not your friends, we're not easily fooled. We look at what makes sense, and you going from "I'm being beaten, I'm crying, I want to run away, I need help" to "Everything is fine now, we talked, we cried, we hugged, we worked it all out and they want your help fixing our conflict" in 30 minutes, when there hasn't been so much as a one minute break between your posts, is a bunch of bull!

If you want to lie to someone, lie to someone that's stupid enough to believe you.

Good bye.

My daughter says that she did not know the reason why I was hitting her.

I am very grateful for you support for my daughter. See I slapped her since she did not follow what I said. and now she is pissed. I know I have to talk to her about this, but can you give me suggestions just like you gave my daughter some?

Boot camp. Your daughter almost had the police and CPS at your house tonight because of her lies. You could have gone to jail, and she could have ended up in foster care.

My advice is that she stop lying. For instance, pretending that we're actually talking to her parents right now, that's just insulting! We're not that stupid!

She should be aware that trolling a site (which is what she did, and is continuing to do) is against the law. So it really would be in her best interest to start telling the truth, otherwise it won't be her choice to have the cops at your house anymore.

My daughter says that she did not know the reason why I was hitting her.
Why were you hitting her?

Boot camp. Your daughter almost had the police and CPS at your house tonight because of her lies. You could have gone to jail, and she could have ended up in foster care.

My advice is that she stop lying. For instance, pretending that we're actually talking to her parents right now, that's just insulting! We're not that stupid!

She should be aware that trolling a site (which is what she did, and is continuing to do) is against the law. So it really would be in her best interest to start telling the truth, otherwise it won't be her choice to have the cops at your house anymore.

Yes I do realize that about my daughter. She has a tendency to lie. She did not tell the entire story why.

Why were you hitting her?

It was a slap and she herself admits it now. She did not do what I asked her to do.

Boot camp. Your daughter almost had the police and CPS at your house tonight because of her lies. You could have gone to jail, and she could have ended up in foster care.

My advice is that she stop lying. For instance, pretending that we're actually talking to her parents right now, that's just insulting! We're not that stupid!

She should be aware that trolling a site (which is what she did, and is continuing to do) is against the law. So it really would be in her best interest to start telling the truth, otherwise it won't be her choice to have the cops at your house anymore.

I am grateful for your advice. I would never beat my daughter even if she does not do what I say.

It was a slap and she herself admits it now. She did not do what I asked her to do.

What about the rest of her story?


They beat me and yell at me when every I get bad grades or do accidents


My dad barely talks to me. Everyday when I get home he is in his room typing up on the computer, and barely speaks. When he does, he's like you are a disgrace. How dare you do poorly in school you piece of shi*t. He curses at me so much,


I just want to leave my house and run away. My mom is the same

So she admits that you don't beat her, that it was just a slap. What about the rest of it? Cursing at your child, telling them they're a disgrace, calling them a piece of sh*t on a daily basis, that's verbal abuse. Abuse is abuse.

I still think that CPS and the police should be called to this home, and this thread used as evidence.

If all of her posts are lies, then the police should be contacted because internet trolling is also against the law.

I am now going to have a 1 on 1 talk with my daughter personal and away from the computer. I will ask for guidance later. I really appreciate what you have done.

What about the rest of her story?







So she admits that you don't beat her, that it was just a slap. What about the rest of it? Cursing at your child, telling them they're a disgrace, calling them a piece of sh*t on a daily basis, that's verbal abuse. Abuse is abuse.

I still think that CPS and the police should be called to this home, and this thread used as evidence.

She was lying about that. And she admitted it too. I am sorry this was a bunch of lies. I will have a 1 on 1 conference not to lie again.

I am now going to have a 1 on 1 talk with my daughter personal and away from the computer. I will ask for guidance later. I really appreciate what you have done.
Not yet. She owes me a response to a request I made to her.

What was that request she should respond to?

What about the rest of her story?







So she admits that you don't beat her, that it was just a slap. What about the rest of it? Cursing at your child, telling them they're a disgrace, calling them a piece of sh*t on a daily basis, that's verbal abuse. Abuse is abuse.

I still think that CPS and the police should be called to this home, and this thread used as evidence.

If all of her posts are lies, then the police should be contacted because internet trolling is also against the law.

I never used any curse words against my daughter. She picked them up from her school. She is not admitting to these lies she made.

But now she says that she is really sorry and that she was just slapped. I can give it to her if you want.

What was that request she should respond to?
I want her to report to me Tuesday evening that things are much improved (or not).

Ok, I will report on how my parents are. Im sorry for lying. I just wanted to make it urgent and get support faster. I owe everyone an opology.

There are serious consequences to lying like this. Also, how do we know that she's really lying? Maybe she isn't, and she reached out for help when you caught her posting online. When you realized that she was finally going to get help, you forced her to say she's lying. It happens all the time. Kids being abused, too afraid to say anything because they'll be further abused.

We've had this sort of situation on this site before. There was a guy on this site that came her asking for help with a legal case. He was arrested for paying for the plane ticket of a 15 year old girl. He was in his 20's. He knew she was 15, he planned to have sex with her in a hotel he booked.

Of course he didn't admit that to the police, but he admitted it all here. He's now in jail in large part because we contacted the FBI and sent his posts to them.

Really, there are so many lies on this thread, I don't know what to believe. Maybe we should get the police involved, just to make sure. If your child is lying, she'll pay for it. If not, we're taking her out of harms way. I really don't think we should just believe what you're saying and take it for fact. After all, we believed your daughter, and now we're told it's all a lie. So who's lying?

Ok, I will report on how my parents are. Im sorry for lying. I just wanted to make it urgent and get support faster. I owe everyone an opology.
I also want to know that you are much more cooperative and cheerfully participating in household chores. I also want you to work harder with school stuff. And learn how to spell the word apology.

Please can you give me one more chance. I know lying is bad, but I did not know what trolling is. I did not mean to lie. Please don't call the cops on my daddy. I was wrong. I don't know what I was thinking even posting here. Im not used to the internet. It was all me I was lying. I promise I have learned my lesson and I won't lie again.

I also want to know that you are much more cooperative and cheerfully participating in household chores. I also want you to work harder with school stuff. And learn how to spell the word apology.

I will, thank you! Also I am sorry for lying to you. I know its bad, but its my first time on the internet. And I did not know what trolling is.

There are serious consequences to lying like this. Also, how do we know that she's really lying? Maybe she isn't, and she reached out for help when you caught her posting online. When you realized that she was finally going to get help, you forced her to say she's lying. It happens all the time. Kids being abused, too afraid to say anything because they'll be further abused.

We've had this sort of situation on this site before. There was a guy on this site that came her asking for help with a legal case. He was arrested for paying for the plane ticket of a 15 year old girl. He was in his 20's. He knew she was 15, he planned to have sex with her in a hotel he booked.

Of course he didn't admit that to the police, but he admitted it all here. He's now in jail in large part because we contacted the FBI and sent his posts to them.

Really, there are so many lies on this thread, I don't know what to believe. Maybe we should get the police involved, just to make sure. If your child is lying, she'll pay for it. If not, we're taking her out of harms way. I really don't think we should just believe what you're saying and take it for fact. After all, we believed your daughter, and now we're told it's all a lie. So who's lying?

I will now tell the truth. I am lying. My dad did not do any of this. I swear this is the truth. I wanted to make it more urgent. I don't know what trolling is. I am sorry. This is my first time. Please give me one more chance. I won't do anything like this again.

If there is no more questions, then I will go to my dad for our talk. Thanks guys. I am so sorry about telling lies.

How old are you?

Please can you give me one more chance. I know lying is bad, but i did not know what trolling is. I did not mean to lie. Please don't call the cops on my daddy. I was wrong. I dont know what i was thinking even posting here. Im not used to the internet. It was all me i was lying. I promise I have learned my lesson and I wont lie again.

Sigh.

My gut is telling me to get the cops involved. I don't believe for a minute that your parents were posting here. Not for one second. I believe that you've been lying about everything on this thread. I don't think you've uttered one true thing since you started here.

Kid, lying is a really big deal. Even if you didn't know what trolling was, you knew that lying was bad, but you did it anyway.

Why should I believe that you learned a lesson, that you won't lie again? You haven't said one true things since you first posted, so why would I believe you now?

I have kids, one is a teen. I would hope that if he went online and told a huge lie like the one you did, that I wouldn't end up in jail because of it. So, I'll give you a second chance. But know this. I only give 2 chances. Screw up again, and you'll deal with the consequences of your actions. You can't always hide behind "I didn't know", because you did. You knew from the very beginning that lying is wrong, but you did it anyway, you just figured you'd get away with it, and you didn't realize that it could get you into this much trouble. Keep it up and you won't need us to call the cops, you'll end up in jail all by yourself.

Get your act together kid. That's a word of advice you really should take to heart, and it's for your own good.

I am 10 yeers old.

Sigh.

My gut is telling me to get the cops involved. I don't believe for a minute that your parents were posting here. Not for one second. I believe that you've been lying about everything on this thread. I don't think you've uttered one true thing since you started here.

Kid, lying is a really big deal. Even if you didn't know what trolling was, you knew that lying was bad, but you did it anyway.

Why should I believe that you learned a lesson, that you won't lie again? You haven't said one true things since you first posted, so why would I believe you now?

I have kids, one is a teen. I would hope that if he went online and told a huge lie like the one you did, that I wouldn't end up in jail because of it. So, I'll give you a second chance. But know this. I only give 2 chances. Screw up again, and you'll deal with the consequences of your actions. You can't always hide behind "I didn't know", because you did. You knew from the very beginning that lying is wrong, but you did it anyway, you just figured you'd get away with it, and you didn't realize that it could get you into this much trouble. Keep it up and you won't need us to call the cops, you'll end up in jail all by yourself.

Get your act together kid. That's a word of advice you really should take to heart, and it's for your own good.

Thank you so much for the chances. I am so sorry. I swear I won't screw up again.

I am 10 yeers old.
Is that the truth?

You will post on Tuesday evening, or at least message me that things are improving and you have stopped lying?

Is that the truth?

You will post on Tuesday evening, or at least message me that things are improving and you have stopped lying?

I know it will be hard to trust me, but I made a promise to the other person not to lie again. I will make sure to post on Tuesday evening, and I will make sure it is the truth, nothing but the truth. I swear I will message you.

May I post the truth of what actually happened? From now on, this is the truth.

I know it will be hard to trust me, but I made a promise to the other person not to lie again. I will make sure to post on tuesday evening, and I will make sure it is the truth, nothing but the truth. I swear I will message you.
Thank you. I am going to close this thread, so either start a new one on this board or message me. Do this anytime after you get home from school. I will be waiting.

May I post the truth of what actually happened? From now on, this is the truth.
Okay. Go. Tell us.

Waiht how do I message you?

waiht how do i message you?
Just post on this board. That will be fine. Alty will want to see it too.

Okay. Go. Tell us.

So I did not do my work and my dad had slapped me. Then I had not talked since I fealt a little anger. He never cursed or beat me. This is the truth. I wanted to know how to work out a plan to do something before the slaps.

Just post on this board. That will be fine. Alty will want to see it too.

I am grateful to both of you for teaching me not to lie. Please rest assured that both of you guys can have trust in me from now on. I don't know how to prove it, but I am telling the truth now.

So I did not do my work and my dad had slapped me. Then i had not talked since i fealt a little anger. He never cursed or beat me. This is the truth. I wanted to know how to work out a plan to do something before the slaps.
Simple. Do the work you are supposed to do.

Simple. Do the work you are supposed to do.

Okay, I guess I made a fuss about it. Thanks.

Just remember, I can smell a lie like a fart in a car. I have two kids, my youngest is 10, just like you. I read this thread to her. She's shocked. She would never even think about lying, especially not like this.

She has a message for you.

Ninjaawsome, lying isn't okay. My mom is a great mom, the best mom ever, and she was going to do anything to help you. It's really bad that you lied to her and to the other lady. Don't do it again. It's not cool. If you have a real problem, my mom will help you, but you can't lie okay?

Me again.

Yes, it will be hard to trust you, but it's not impossible. Tell the truth and you won't have to worry about anything. If you do need help, we're here, and we can and will get help to you if you can't get it yourself. But you have to be honest with us. We can't help you if you lie. Okay?

Remember, I'm giving you a second chance. But screw up that second chance, and you're going to wish the cops had come to get you, because they'll be easier to deal with. ;)

Just remember, I can smell a lie like a fart in a car. I have two kids, my youngest is 10, just like you. I read this thread to her. She's shocked. She would never even think about lying, especially not like this.

She has a message for you.

Ninjaawsome, lying isn't okay. My mom is a great mom, the best mom ever, and she was going to do anything to help you. It's really bad that you lied to her and to the other lady. Don't do it again. It's not cool. If you have a real problem, my mom will help you, but you can't lie okay?

Me again.

Yes, it will be hard to trust you, but it's not impossible. Tell the truth and you won't have to worry about anything. If you do need help, we're here, and we can and will get help to you if you can't get it yourself. But you have to be honest with us. We can't help you if you lie. Okay?

Remember, I'm giving you a second chance. But screw up that second chance, and you're going to wish the cops had come to get you, because they'll be easier to deal with. ;)

Again I am grateful for the chance. And I swore to tell the truth now.

And be careful when you are on the Internet. People can track you down very easily. Be careful whom you chat with and what you say. Okay?

>This thread is closed.<

Ok this is a topic for wondergirl and alty, I promised I would reply to them but I don't know how. Anyway, if you read this wondergirl and alty, our relationship is getting stronger. We have made a time table to make it clear whose responsibilities is whose and I follow it like you said to. I also will not forget the lesson I learned from you and atyl.

I'm here. I am not a "him" -- I am Wondergirl!

Now, tell me what you and your parents agreed to. Please give me some details.

Another lesson to learn. You can start a thread asking for a specific persons help, or dedicate it to a specific person, but anyone that's a member of this site can answer if they so choose. :)

I'm glad you came back to post. It's amazing that things have changed so quickly in your home. Makes me think that things weren't nearly as bad as you reported, that it was mostly due to your behavior.

So, how have things changed? How are things really going? Anything new to report?

I'm here. I am not a "him" -- I am Wondergirl!

Now, tell me what you and your parents agreed to. Please give me some details.

I am sorry. Okay so like we had a talk with my parents, and we agreed that everyone had to make compromises like everyone had to change in order for the best to occur. So they said that they would help me and try to support me even more if I take up my reposibilities since I'm growing up and that I need to tell the truth for this relationship to occur.

Another lesson to learn. You can start a thread asking for a specific persons help, or dedicate it to a specific person, but anyone that's a member of this site can answer if they so choose. :)

I'm glad you came back to post. It's amazing that things have changed so quickly in your home. Makes me think that things weren't nearly as bad as you reported, that it was mostly due to your behavior.

So, how have things changed? How are things really going? Anything new to report?

Thanks for the new lesson! Yea you were right though. Things have changed drastically like I no longer fell the anger I felt towards them when like they like lost their trust. I agree with you though probably due to my reported.

I am sorry. Okay so like we had a talk with my parents, and we agreed that everyone had to make compromises like everyone had to change in order for the best to occur. So they said that they would help me and try to support me even more if i take up my reposibilities since im growing up and that i need to tell the truth for this relationship to occur.
Okay. That's a bunch of gobbledy-gook and I have no clue what it means.

What are your responsibilities and what is going to change?

Are you in 4th grade?

Okay. That's a bunch of gobbledy-gook and I have no clue what it means.

What are your responsibilities and what is going to change?

Are you in 4th grade?

Yea I'm 4th born after the cut off. Like you know like my chores (folding the clothes, help my parents with cleaning our house) and help me parents when they need help like with cleaning the house. THe things that are goingle to change is like the trust I have in them and the way I talk to them and how I show my feelings. LIke sometimes I'm kind of like afraid or mad at them to talk.

Yea im 4th born after the cut off. Like you know like my chores (folding the clothes, help my parents with cleaning our house) and help me parents when they need help like with cleaning the house. THe things that are goingle to change is like the trust i have in them and the way i talk to them and how i show my feelings. LIke sometimes im kinda like afraid or mad at them to talk.
And you will feel free to come to this site to ask for our help? Alty and I will always be watching for you.

Have you been studying about Texas Indians?

And you will feel free to come to this site to ask for our help? Alty and I will always be watching for you.

Have you been studying about Texas Indians?

Yea do feel free. At our school the last thing we learned was about Santa ana and the Alamo in social studies.


And you will feel free to come to this site to ask for our help? Alty and I will always be watching for you.

Have you been studying about Texas Indians?

Grr, I hate columbus for mixing up indians. See I'm an actually Indian, and he thought that America was India. That goofy guy.

A 4th grader... I miss 4th graders!

Yea do feel free. At our school the last thing we learned was about Santa ana and the Alamo in social studies.
Fourth graders are required to learn about Texas Indians too, and I wrote a book that Texas teachers use to help teach about all the various tribes.

Well, I do want hear from you now and then as to how things are going at home. And NO MORE LYING or making up stories!

Does your mom make samosas?

Fourth graders are required to learn about Texas Indians too, and I wrote a book that Texas teachers use to help teach about all the various tribes.

Well, I do want hear from you now and then as to how things are going at home. And NO MORE LYING or making up stories!!

Ahem, Native Americans!


Does your mom make samosas?

Yup they are yummy!

ahem, Native Americans!
Here is one page from my book (and yes, Native Americans) -- Tigua (http://www.toucanvalley.com/txind_s.htm).


Yup they are yummy!
Yup, they are one of my favorite things in the whole world!

And, since you write books, do you know anything about the STAAR for 4th graders? Why did they change it?

Like when I was in second grade it was the Taaks for the 3rd-5th graders but its now Staar.

And, since you write books, do you know anything about the STAAR for 4th graders? Why did they change it?
I don't know why they did. I think the state educators want to be sure students are learning everything that is important to know.

Our teachers said that the person in charge of our district (min is Coppell) is trying to ban the test since the high schooler are going to have to take like 10 test. Im scared about high school. She said that there were a lot of hard Ap's. (what are those)?

Our teachers said that the person in charge of our district (min is Coppell) is trying to ban the test since the high schooler are going to have to take like 10 test. Im scared about high school. She said that there were a lot of hard Ap's. (what are those)?
AP = advanced placement, probably looking ahead to getting into college and being able to skip courses that were done well in high school.

Here is from the STAAR site -- "At high school, however, grade-specific assessments will be replaced with 12 end-of-course (EOC) assessments: Algebra I, geometry, Algebra II, biology, chemistry, physics, English I, English II, English III, world geography, world history, and U.S. history."

If someone does well on the high school STAAR tests, he/she won't have to take those classes in college.

Don't be scared. Just study every day in school, now and in high school. Don't get lazy and blow it off.

Thank you for coming back to let me know things are improving. I hope you stay on top of this and ask for our help if there are more problems.

It sounds like you and your parents are back on track. That's great news.

I have a ten year old daughter, but we don't live in the US, so the education system is a bit different. Also, she's in grade 5. My son is in grade 8, next year will be the tough year for him, the year that his grades can really determine his career. What he gets placed in in high school will depend on his 9th grade marks. He's very nervous about it.

We all go through it, and even if you're worried, you just have to study hard, ask questions, and do your best. You write very well for your age, so you're obviously smart. Keep it up. :)