cherrywood6
Feb 12, 2013, 03:18 PM
Hello
I have been in touch with a guy my age 58 off a dating site.
We have got on fantastic emailing texting and talking on the phone for 3wks and had our first date last Saturday. When we met he said I looked really nice and we had a lovely night going to avout 3 bars watching bands which we both said we would like to do.
However in each pub he went to the toilet and left me on my own with the drinks till he came back which was quite a long time and on our first date together.
When he did come back I could smell cigarette smoke on him, (however on the dating site said he was a non-smoker and dod not want to date a smoker which I am not and never have been). I didn't say anything to him about smelling the smoke on him but feel that he had lied on his profile. I felt I was my normal self talking and making conversation and felt we got on OK. At the end of the night he got on the metro with me and got off at his stop and waved and smile to me. He asked me to let him know I got home safe.
I did and said I had had a lovely night with him and hope he did with me too?
He replied 45mins later and said "good I got home safe and that he had a great night with lovely company. Nite nitexxx".
It is now Tuesday and he hasn't contacted me at all even though every day for 3 weeks he contacted me morning and evening?
I have looked on the web site and he is available again for chatting to females?
I just cannot understand it or why he hasn't even sent an email or a text to say either way if there was problem?
Should I leave it as his loss or contact him myself?
Nikki
I have been in touch with a guy my age 58 off a dating site.
We have got on fantastic emailing texting and talking on the phone for 3wks and had our first date last Saturday. When we met he said I looked really nice and we had a lovely night going to avout 3 bars watching bands which we both said we would like to do.
However in each pub he went to the toilet and left me on my own with the drinks till he came back which was quite a long time and on our first date together.
When he did come back I could smell cigarette smoke on him, (however on the dating site said he was a non-smoker and dod not want to date a smoker which I am not and never have been). I didn't say anything to him about smelling the smoke on him but feel that he had lied on his profile. I felt I was my normal self talking and making conversation and felt we got on OK. At the end of the night he got on the metro with me and got off at his stop and waved and smile to me. He asked me to let him know I got home safe.
I did and said I had had a lovely night with him and hope he did with me too?
He replied 45mins later and said "good I got home safe and that he had a great night with lovely company. Nite nitexxx".
It is now Tuesday and he hasn't contacted me at all even though every day for 3 weeks he contacted me morning and evening?
I have looked on the web site and he is available again for chatting to females?
I just cannot understand it or why he hasn't even sent an email or a text to say either way if there was problem?
Should I leave it as his loss or contact him myself?
Nikki