UnknownKitty
Feb 12, 2013, 04:09 AM
Hey, I have been with my boyfriend for 10 1/2 months. We both love each other. We are 19 years old
To get to the point, one of my mates who I have been mates with for like years. She wants to split me and my boyfriend up. Her and her best mate who is also my mate text me saying my boyfriend is a prick. She said she swore down he squeezed her bum. She kept saying she swears down on her life. Then my boyfriend had it out with her with me there. She said someone squeezed her bum but she wasn't sure who it was, either my boyfriend or his mate. My boyfriend was really annoyed and upset that I accused him of doing something he didn't do. My mate stood on a table and bent over to try show my boyfriend her bum. He told her to 'F**k off' and to stop F**king lying. So from that its obvious she was lying. She flirted with him right in front of me as well. My boyfriend just said get off me and kept saying horrible stuff to her. My other best mate had a go at him. She didn't even see anything she just took my other mates side.
To get to the point, my boyfriend feels like I don't care because I didn't ask why she made stuff up about us. I just want to forget it. I don't want to fall out with my friends even if she is trying to split us up. He started a massive argument last Saturday night up town because I was dancing with her and I had gone out with her. He said he doesn't want me being friends with them and that I'm putting him 2nd best. Also, I have a twin sister, and he says that by dancing with her and staying out late I am putting him 2nd best.
I don't know what to do, I just want to forgive my friends and dance with my sister as well as have a boyfriend. Is this major control? Can anyone see it from his point of view? He says that I don't do anything without my sisters permission but its not like that at all, I just want to dance with my sister on a night out as well as my friends. :( He created a massive argument because I wanted us to go half's with the taxi. Also, he said that its not like a normal relationship because I didn't send naked photographs or text him in the morning. He said loads of stuff like how he wanted us to go on a break and see other people, but then when he was sober in the morning he said "sorry for being nasty last night? and that he only wants me and ofc he doesn't want to see other people. He said he only wants me.
What should I do :( ? Also, when we argue he says "get a taxi home" I know its partly my fault for accusing him and saying "If you squeezed her bum, its over" but we made back up. I said sorry straight away after a few hours and we made up. What should I do? I want to be friends with them :(
She said this, one of my mates, "Hes really good looking"
"(boyfriends name) there, just seen him"
I see her constantly staring at him 24/7 she doesn't take her eyes of him :(
She even said, well I don't know but someone did, probs your mate then
To get to the point, one of my mates who I have been mates with for like years. She wants to split me and my boyfriend up. Her and her best mate who is also my mate text me saying my boyfriend is a prick. She said she swore down he squeezed her bum. She kept saying she swears down on her life. Then my boyfriend had it out with her with me there. She said someone squeezed her bum but she wasn't sure who it was, either my boyfriend or his mate. My boyfriend was really annoyed and upset that I accused him of doing something he didn't do. My mate stood on a table and bent over to try show my boyfriend her bum. He told her to 'F**k off' and to stop F**king lying. So from that its obvious she was lying. She flirted with him right in front of me as well. My boyfriend just said get off me and kept saying horrible stuff to her. My other best mate had a go at him. She didn't even see anything she just took my other mates side.
To get to the point, my boyfriend feels like I don't care because I didn't ask why she made stuff up about us. I just want to forget it. I don't want to fall out with my friends even if she is trying to split us up. He started a massive argument last Saturday night up town because I was dancing with her and I had gone out with her. He said he doesn't want me being friends with them and that I'm putting him 2nd best. Also, I have a twin sister, and he says that by dancing with her and staying out late I am putting him 2nd best.
I don't know what to do, I just want to forgive my friends and dance with my sister as well as have a boyfriend. Is this major control? Can anyone see it from his point of view? He says that I don't do anything without my sisters permission but its not like that at all, I just want to dance with my sister on a night out as well as my friends. :( He created a massive argument because I wanted us to go half's with the taxi. Also, he said that its not like a normal relationship because I didn't send naked photographs or text him in the morning. He said loads of stuff like how he wanted us to go on a break and see other people, but then when he was sober in the morning he said "sorry for being nasty last night? and that he only wants me and ofc he doesn't want to see other people. He said he only wants me.
What should I do :( ? Also, when we argue he says "get a taxi home" I know its partly my fault for accusing him and saying "If you squeezed her bum, its over" but we made back up. I said sorry straight away after a few hours and we made up. What should I do? I want to be friends with them :(
She said this, one of my mates, "Hes really good looking"
"(boyfriends name) there, just seen him"
I see her constantly staring at him 24/7 she doesn't take her eyes of him :(
She even said, well I don't know but someone did, probs your mate then