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Samstr19
Feb 11, 2013, 06:24 PM
I'm an average female teenager. My dad and mom are divorced I see my dad regularly and he has a wife I also have a step dad who lives with me my mom and my Half brother. My mom has said to me many times that she wishes I'd move with my dad or I should have never been born. They favor my little half brother me and my mom fight but it always turns physical she has beaten me pretty bad like tonight she was taking out all her anger on me and blaming me for her crappy life it soon turned physical and my head hurts and had lumps on it, she told me she can't wait until I Turn 18 which is in about 4 months and the only reason I'm still living with her is because of school. I'm a senior and there's no point in transferring with a few months left. I can't move in with my dad until June and its only February I don't know what to do I am hated here and I need help.

Homegirl 50
Feb 11, 2013, 06:28 PM
Take pictures of bruises and let your counselor at school and your dad know your mom is abusing you.

fredg
Feb 11, 2013, 06:29 PM
I am so sorry to read this. It makes me hurt all over to know this is happening, and not only to you, but so many others. I am 71 yrs old, and have never been abusive, but some people are.
Can you talk with a counselor about this? Abuse shouldn't be left to keep happening over and over. I am sorry your Mom isn't happy, and this is not helping you one bit. You can either "put up" with it until you can move in with your Dad, or try doing something about it now, like talking with your counselor. Good luck, and may God bless you.

Fr_Chuck
Feb 11, 2013, 06:44 PM
Call the police, talk to a teacher or counselor at school.

Move in with a school friend if you have one, I would guess mom would not care.

JARIXA
Feb 11, 2013, 07:51 PM
Please tell a teacher or your councelor. Anyone who can help she doesn't deserve you. And my heart aces just reading this. She shouldn't be abusing you just because she is in pain. Does she abuse your half brother as well?? :(:(:(:(

Samstr19
Feb 13, 2013, 02:02 PM
So I've recently gotten Into a very bad fight with my mom it turned physical. This is not the first time but I've been staying with my dad for a few days, I'm only 17 and almost done with high school and I'm suppose to be moving In with my dad when I graduate well because of this fight it has caused things to speed up. I'm packing and stuff I want to tell my mom but I don't want to hurt her feelings or make her mad she is a very spiteful person she holds grudges and is mean. Me Andy dad are planing on telling her but why are some things I should say to ease the pain?

odinn7
Feb 13, 2013, 02:08 PM
So you got into a fight with your mother, it turned violent, and now you're moving in with your dad... is that right?

It amuses me that you had a physical fight but you are afraid of hurting her feelings. Something there doesn't make sense to me.

As a side note here... who has custody of you according to the courts?

Homegirl 50
Feb 13, 2013, 02:19 PM
In your post the other day you said your mother does not care about you.
You were advised to let your dad and counselor know she is abusing you.
Let your dad talk to your mother.
From what you wrote before I would think she would be glad you are leaving.
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