I have an irregular period. The last time I had my period was the end of December and it lasted over 2 weeks. I was fooling around with my boyfriend while still on my period and I had gotten a little bit of his... you know.. on my finger. About 15 minutes later I changed my tampon and forgot to wash my hands before, but my finger was dry and I only touched the outside of my vagina. Now it is February and I still have not gotten a period since December; I only had a brown discharge for about 2 days in January. I went to the doctors to test for a UTI and my urine tested negative, my hormones were fine, but I had some hemolyzed blood. She also noticed that I lost 4 pounds (which does not seem possible). My breasts feel swollen and I am getting minor cramps. Does this mean my period is coming or am I pregnant?

Early pregnancy and PMS are easily confused, but this is most likely your period making itself known.

Okay thanks that makes me feel a little bit better. But I forgot to mention I have been going to the bathroom wayyyyy too much, and I hardly drink anything. Again, frequent urination is another symptom of pregnancy so I don't know...