Well I'm a 15 year old boy, and I've been having these gay thoughts in my head like when I try to think of attractive girls a dude will pop up this was all after I was talking to my online girlfriend and she was watching catfish and I saw 2 dudes kiss I've watch gay porn a few times never the full video cause I think that it's disturbing I have never gotten a boner from it. I have always had crushes on girls never gotten a boner from looking at

Guys shirtless and you I get boners from looking at my girlfriends pics and Idk. Please help

Sounds like typical rampant teen hormones to me.

Sounds like typical rampant teen hormones to me.

Okay cause it's worrying me sick and I don't know makes me feel like I don't love my girlfriend and I do.

No, it is just normal teen,

You are gay if you wish to have sex with other boys, thinking about it at times is not being gay.

Okay thanks cause its playing with my mind making me wonder.

Well this is like my last question ever since the gay thoughts I've felt like I might be gay but I don't want to be I've never been attracted to males I've been obsessed with a few girls but ever since I've been having gay thoughts like I have them all time after seeing two guys kiss I thought it was gross but it makes me think I might not like kissing girls and since I have an online girlfriend I can't reall kiss her and I'm only 15 so that eliminates the reason to drive to see her and I don't know I'm just really scared and I've never been scared to get boners around my friends and now I am. Never been turned on by any male. Never felt anything for a guy. Before these thoughts I used too fantasies about hot girls all day at school and now I never can. And it's scaring me! I've told my parents and they don't think I am and they would love me if I was. But I really do think I'm strait and its bothering me. Thinking that I am or might be and that I might not like kissing girls since I have never kissed anyone.

I am gay and have known that I am gay for a very long time - since elementary school I would think. To me it is predetermined before birth. So you don't sound gay to me. You sound like every other teen out there that goes through these thoughts. Don't let it worry you. You will be fine.

You sound like a 15 year old with raging hormones. If the feeling you get while looking at boys kissing bothers you, stop doing it.

But it's in my head and won't go away its been doi g this for a but longer then a week

But it's in my head and won't go away its been doi g this for a but longer then a week

You are putting way too much stress on yourself. Trust me, other boys are having the same thoughts. And at your age you can't really control when you get an erection. Neither can other boys. So just mellow out and accept that this happens and move on. Occupy your mind and time with fun stuff that you like to do. These thoughts will go away and you will be on to newer thoughts. Trust me, you will be fine.

Thank you I feel a lot better after what you all have said