I just don't get it. He never talks to me, only when I talk to him. He acts bored and quiet around me. I'm nice to hiim and he just doesn't seem to like me. He's nice to heaps of other girls and even told me I was hot. I don't no what I've done wrong . We are family friends and he just always isolates himself for no reason. I mean we could be good friends if he wasn't so quiet. But he's not quiet around other girls and he definitely doesn't like me so I just reli need sum1 to help me out

Why is he doing this ?

What have I done wrong?

What should I do?

Gahh I'm so confused

Please help me!!

Thanks heaps

Is he like that the first time you met? My advice is try to ask him about it.

Maybe he likes you

Hi smtchatgirl2

Yeah definitely talk to him about it but could I ask why its really burning you up?
Are you interested in him? Hoping to pursue? Or a frustrated friend with no romantic intent?

Young boys have a funny way of showing that they like a girl... they end up making her feel like crap, but they mean to convey that they like her. I would just ask and if he can't be mature about it... say goodbye.

Maybe he's unhappy about something concerning you or maybe he's concerned about something. Maybe he expects something from you.

He seems like he's not speaking out something.

Talk to him about it!

You're friends, right?

Don't be shy!

Did it cross your mind hun that the reason he is acting like that is because he has more feelings for you than you know?

But if he does like, which I don't even no if its true. Why would he never talk to me? I don't know I guess I still like him but at the moment but he's really frustrating me and I just don't no what to do. I've asked him why he neva talks and he said he's shy but I just don't no if I believe him. I think he likes another girl anyway or at least she likes him. He never makes conversation and I feel like he's avoiding me

Can you tell us on how you became friends?

Well our families are good friends and we always met up with his family and a few other families to. He's sort of the only guy there our age. Out of four families its me and 2 other girls my age. I can understand how he might feel shy or watever but its been like 3 years you think hed get over it?? And like I make conversation but he doesn't make conversation back. Like he answers but its just like a yeah or don't know. Gaah its annoying. I want to be friends with him but he just dusnt seem interested ? Help?

Then, be straight-forward... "Hey you! Why don't you wanna talk to me? I try to make a conversation and you only give me boring answers... Why are you so mean?!" :p

I really don't know... It usually works for me. Make it sound funny and I hope he'll understand your message.

If not, maybe... that's just the way he is? :rolleyes:

I reckon he has feelings for you
He doesn't talk to you as much because he's afraid of something he might say or maybe that something he might say will make you dislike him or something.
You've done nothing wrong chick.
I just reckon he likes you.

People keep saying that but it can't be true! I mean he said he like someone else and he told me so himself when I ased. So it has to be that he doesn't like me? And I guess I can see what you mean. He probably is worried about what to say round me because he might think I will not like him but I would never do that! I like him and I want to be friends or maybe even more. He just doesn't seem to want to know me. Whenever we are at family friend things he's always really quiet around me and seems to avoid me. I don't get it because I make an effort to talk to him when I get up the courage and when I think of something to say but its like he just doesn't respond with any exciting conversation! I asked him why he's so quite and he told me that he was shy but then he said there is nothing to talk about me I took that to heart. He also said that we are two differen t types of people but wouldn't tell me what the types were and I'm scared to find out , then again he could just be making it up as an excuse but what's the point of that? I don't know what I did wrong! Maybe I'm just not up to his standards. I really don't undesnd what's going on inside his ead! Does he hate me?? I don't see y? I'm so confused here

Hey smcthatgirl2

Wow, sounds like you are a little wound up with his behaviour..
Maybe if he's a friend of the family, he's worried about the amount of grief he would cop from both families.. and the amount of pressure...
And if he did make any advances and the relationship didn't work or you knocked him back how akward any future visits would be..

I hope something gives for you... Either way I believe if your meant to be together eventually fate will work in it's own way..
Good Luck babe..

Yeah I have sort of given up on him anyway, well I am trying to forget him. I mean he doesn't make an effort with me its kind of depressing. Yeah it gets me really angry because all I have done is try. I am sure he feels a bit worried but it hads been like three years already. I don't think I'm good enough for him, that's probably what he thinks. I just want him to be nice and normal and talk and he just doesn't seem to want any part in it and I just can't figure out why. Its sad . I never get a nice guy

I have the same ishu I like him but he won't raven answer me so your luck he eaves responds!

I'm having the same ishu but he won't even reply to me so u have it easy!