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lucy0757
Feb 2, 2013, 07:05 PM
Hi I have dated my ex boyfriend for 7 months and we were friends for 2 years before we dated. We just broke up last Saturday (a week ago) and we are on a break right now.

He told me he really liked me a lot more then any girl he ever dated but he's just really busy with school, basketball, and family, and needs some alone time. Then he asked me if I wanted to push through his busy times, but we would never hang for months, or just take a break until summer. I said take a break but now that I've been single for a week I really miss him and want to get back together. I cry like everyday I miss him so much.

We haven't texted or talked since the break up. I either need to move on which I don't want too, or I want to text him and tell him how I'm feeling but if I text him I don't want him to be like ugh she's annoying, but I really miss him. What should I do? :(

talaniman
Feb 2, 2013, 07:40 PM
I can understand your hurt and hope you get through it with friends and family and retun to having your own fun for now. By summer which is a ways off you will not love so much and have no time for someone that didn't have time for you.

That's not the love you deserve,and it wouldn't have been a healthy love any way because he has tomany other priorities. Don't text him at all, no matter how bad you want to. Sorry for your rejection.

dontknownuthin
Feb 2, 2013, 08:17 PM
Well, he's not going to spend time with you or be attentive to you no matter whether you take a break, or stick with him through this time when he's told you he's going to ignore you. So, you're going to be lonely either way. He said he's not going to have time for you.