I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, and we have a 1 year old together. But, I have noticed that we have an argument every day. I don't get turned on much anymore, I do love him and I love to cuddle and kiss, but I feel like there is something missing. We don't go out anymore, he doesn't like to leave the house much. I don't know what to do.

I have a friend (guy) that looks amazing, its not that my man isn't amazing he is, but I feel very attracted to someone else and I feel so guilty, I get very turned on when I see this guy and I feel like kissing him but I haven't let him notice my feelings cause I don't want something to go on, I don't know what to do.

If I should break up with my man and move on or stay and see if things work out. He also messed up a few months back, I caught him talking to another girl, and I broke up with him for 2 days. I missed him too much. I felt very uncomfortable at my parents home, mind you I have a little girl with him. He spoke to me and we worked it out. I think that's when things went very bad. Now I don't know what to do, should I stay or should I go. It's hard.

Don' be distracted by your feelings of attractions for others, its normal. Just keep it to yourself and don't cross the lines of good behavior. LOL, everything can look better than what you haveto when there is so much arguing going on at home.

Now what's the arguing every day about? I suspect its still lingering resentments of his talking some girl. Hard to be attracted to someone you argue with every day, sotellme why you argue,and NOT just talk... OR... listen?