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opodopo
Jan 28, 2013, 01:09 PM
Hi guys! I have problem with my girlfriend. Im 27 she is 23. W have been togheter for a 1 year and 6 months. Last 2, or 3 months I went to study in other contry. But not far. Before I went here we had some problems, but we stayed together.When I came there, instead of hearing each other every day via skype or something, it suddenly turned to me calling her every day, asking her why she is not calling me and so. And day buy day it get worse. I went to her couple of times but we are like OK for several days and we have fight again. So once we broke up in December. And I didn't called her for 7 days, then she called me and said to me that she miss me and want to see me. So we met, and we were back together. And again when I came here, again started not contacting me, not calling and everything, and couple days ago we had huge talk. She said that she loves me very much and she mis me every day, but she don't feel responsibility to a relationship like before. She forget to call me, go out with friends, and she is like tierd of the feeling of a relationship. And she don't know what to do... She is like afraid of break up because she cares, but things are definitely not OK between us. So she again like first time said she need space to think, and said to me when I come there (in a next few days) to call her to meet. I said that I would like her to know then her decision. So we don't have contact like two days, and Im going there in three days. I don't feel very happy, I have very tough moments because I love her, but if she said those things and so, do you think this is worth of saving? Love me, miss me, but don't know if she want to be with me... o.O How is that possible if you love someone. Please help.

opodopo
Jan 28, 2013, 04:02 PM
Please anyone??

opodopo
Jan 31, 2013, 05:21 PM
I came to this site confused as well, and I still am.. I had a girl for over three years and said she loved me and everything else but didn't want to be with me. Then I found out she was seeing someone else.

Pfffff... I'm not sure anymore in anything... she was like swearing to me that it is not someone else. An we are like still talking all the time, and she is not the kind of person who would keep me in lies. At least I believe so. She would cut the thing if there is someone else. But she is all the time, like I don't know, Im still thinking, I don't know what is the problem with us, she wants to meet me to talk... aaaaahhhhhh, is there anything worse on this world then this stupid love... :\