My wife moved out 8 months ago, we've been married 11 years and have had some ruff times mainly about her children from her previous marriage that are 21 and 25 now. At first we didn't communicate for a month at all. Then gradually we started going to dinner once in a while then summer came and went boating , Mets game etc. and had a very nice time. Just last weekend we went cross country skiing again a nice time. Then I emailed her about going away for 2 days, which we have only done day trips , and her response was 2 days later . I have had fun but I need time to get bored with my free time and have nothing to do, and she is still having a hard time forgetting about the hard times we've had. And she doesn't want to interact for a while and to just let her be for know. How should I take this and what can I do