I am 7 mnths pregnant and my hubby wants to have a 3some with our cute skinny employee. I have been trying to get him to fire her but he says they are just friends.I am uncomfortable with how he said they were just friends and when he suggested we do a threesome I was cool with it till he said he can wait till I have the baby but he would like to do it before... should I be worried... I think they may already have done something... but not sure plus I am not happy with the fact that they work alone sometimes... I show up unannounced all the time but I never catch them doing anything... plus she seems to always be on her period... he got a little upset when I told him we should find a stranger rather then her... he said we can do the stranger but lets still try to get her... she says she is into the idea but keeps beating around.the bush. She tells me my mans to pushy and tells him I'm too pushy... but her and my hubby keep looking at each other wired like maybe something already went down with them omg and I'm pregnant and I feel big I don't think I could do it right now... all my guy friends say he is way to into her even if he swears they would never do anything without me they say he is a big fat liar... just the way he acts around her now they think my gut feeling is right... what do I do..

Im sorry but don't agree to it at all what the heck is wrobg with him sorry for the language he should not be focusing on a thee some when your about to give him a baby I would definitely trust your gut and if id listen to your friends I'm sorry but I've been in a similar situaition he told me they were friends were in school together and shed send him pictures and he still claimed it was just a friend he ended up saying he needed a break because his family was having problem to then find out he was hanging out with her and were going out. He ended up braking up because he still loved me.. I still get very emotional and recently I found out after all these years she started speaking to him and we have a child I'm very hurt but always trust your gut I didn't n I knew something was wrong and I ignored it he needs to fire her for the sake of your relationship if you don't feel comfortable and don't want her to be in your threesome he would understand if he truly loves but I'm no one to tell you what to do I obviously donf know what to do

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It's time to tell him that it's you or he hits the road. It's blatantly obvious to us outsiders that there is more going on than you are aware of, and you really do know it. You just aren't willing to admit it.

PPPFFFTTT!!

There is no way I would agree to that. Instead of being focused on welcoming y'alls new baby into the world, he is focused on a threesome?

Screw that. First off he has wrong priorities. Second - there is no way I would agree to allow my partner to touch or be touched by anyone else.

And if you say no does this mean he is going to cheat? These behaviors will go from bad to worse.

Kick him to the curb, he is already with her, and you will not accept that fact, now he wants it all

Kick him to the curb, he is already with her, and you will not accept that fact, now he wants it all

I totally agree. He should be focused on her and the baby. Not his own stupid physical gratification.