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badgirl1
Jan 25, 2013, 12:56 PM
Should I tell my best guy friend I have a crush on him?

shank005100
Jan 25, 2013, 01:31 PM
It depends upon him. Just give him a situation involving two friends who became lovers eventually and ask his views upon that situation. If he feels that there is no wrong in friends becoming lovers ehn go ahead do not delay it... just let him know about your crush on him. But if he doesn't support this then you need to be careful as disclosing your feelings over him might be an end to your relationship even as friends.

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 03:20 PM
How long have you been friends and how long have you had a crush? What would be the point? How old are the both of you?

badgirl1
Jan 25, 2013, 05:16 PM
How long have you been friends and how long have you had a crush? What would be the point? How old are the both of you?
4 year and about 1 year and I'm 13 turn 14 in April and his 14 turn 15 in octorber

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 05:28 PM
I think you should just stay friends with him. You are too young for anything else

badgirl1
Jan 25, 2013, 05:50 PM
I think you should just stay friends with him. You are too young for anything else

I have been datin when was 5 years old I know what I'm doing and he moved to Texas in the summer we can't do any thing expect text and call and Facebook each other that what do now

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 06:10 PM
So you have been dating since you've been 5? If you know what you're doing why are you here asking what to do?
If you can't can do anything what would be the point? Maybe he has found someone there, your starting something with him now would be unfair.

badgirl1
Jan 25, 2013, 07:23 PM
So you have been dating since you've been 5? If you know what you're doing why are you here asking what to do?
If you can't can do anything what would be the point? Maybe he has found someone there, your starting something with him now would be unfair.

How will be unfair and he is single I know for a fact

How can I know a guy likes me

Fr_Chuck
Jan 25, 2013, 07:51 PM
Ask him out on a date, if this is a high school age issue.
If this is a younger juv, I think the habit is have your friend ask his friend, so some silly thing like that.
Normally just talking to the other person is what you do

badgirl1
Jan 25, 2013, 07:57 PM
Ask him out on a date, if this is a high school age issue.
If this is a younger juv, I think the habit is have your friend ask his friend, so some silly thing like that.
Normally just talking to the other person is what you do

Will I'm in middle school so can u help me with that

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 07:58 PM
You no longer live in the same place and have no chance of a relationship. He should be free to date girls where he is. What good would it do for him to know this, what would be the point.

Is this the guy who has moved away and you want to tell him you have a crush on him? You are 13 he's 14 Just ask him. But he lives far way from you, what difference will it make?
There is no reason to post another question.

badgirl1
Jan 25, 2013, 08:27 PM
Is this the guy who has moved away and you want to tell him you have a crush on him? You are 13 he's 14 Just ask him. But he lives far way from you, what difference will it make?
There is no reason to post another question.

No this about a guy in my school OK

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 08:33 PM
Do you talk to this guy, does he talk to you?

badgirl1
Jan 25, 2013, 08:42 PM
Do you talk to this guy, does he talk to you?

Yes


You no longer live in the same place and have no chance of a relationship. He should be free to date girls where he is. What good would it do for him to know this, what would be the point.

I live in the same place he dose not he don't like the any of the girls in his school because make funny of him and call him names so your therey is out about girls

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 08:52 PM
If we don't know anything about the guy or his actions with and around you, what makes you think we know if he likes you?
If he talks to you, he does not dislike you.

I thought you said he moved to Texas and you can't do anything but call and text and Facebook.
Why are you asking about another guy liking you, do you have a crush on him too?

badgirl1
Jan 25, 2013, 09:22 PM
If we don't know anything about the guy or his actions with and around you, what makes you think we know if he likes you?
If he talks to you, he does not dislike you.

He stares at me lot because I stares at him and some we have eye contact with each other or my best friend see him starein at because she seat next to him in class and I talk to her and he gets really quit or try to show off when I'm around and nerves look in is eyes and we 1 , 4, 6 period together


I thought you said he moved to Texas and you can't do anything but call and text and facebook.
Why are you asking about another guy liking you, do you have a crush on him too?

Maybe

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 09:25 PM
Well at your ages, he probably does. So does this mean you don't have a crush on the other guy?

Well leave the guy in Texas alone. You don't know who you like. And you will probably like many others. You are still very young.

badgirl1
Jan 25, 2013, 09:40 PM
Well leave the guy in Texas alone. You don't know who you like. And you will probably like many others. You are still very young.

So who cares if one say yes I'm fine with eirth one of them


Well at your ages, he probably does. So does this mean you don't have a crush on the other guy?

I like both of them

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 09:47 PM
Well why would you tell one guy you have a crush on him when you like another one?
As young as you are, stay friends with both and concentrate on school.

You can't even see the one in Texas, why even start that? Are you just itching to have a boyfriend and you don't care who?
Concentrate on school and leave the boyfriend thing alone.

badgirl1
Jan 25, 2013, 10:22 PM
You can't even see the one in Texas, why even start that? Are you just itching to have a boyfriend and you don't care who?
Concentrate on school and leave the boyfriend thing alone.

One in Texas know already knows


Well why would you tell one guy you have a crush on him when you like another one?
As young as you are, stay friends with both and concentrate on school.

Little to late

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 11:24 PM
Why is it too late? You don't know if one guy likes you and you're asking if you should tell another guy you have a crush. Concentrate on school. You are too young to be so hung up on boys.
You don't know what you want.

So you told him? What did he say and what about the other guy? Do you not like him anymore. You are so young. You don't know what you are doing or what you want.

badgirl1
Jan 26, 2013, 11:06 AM
So you told him? What did he say and what about the other guy? Do you not like him anymore. You are so young. You don't know what you are doing or what you want.

I do know what I want so don't say that if you don't know anf one in Texas said I love you lol and because I made he gusse because I tought it would be fun and I don't know about if you are friends or more than frineds and one in my school I ask and he said no because I'm mean and I'm not mean ask any of my friends


Why is it too late? You don't know if one guy likes you and you're asking if you should tell another guy you have a crush. Concentrate on school. You are too young to be so hung up on boys.
You don't know what you want.

I mange my time so don't worry about that and I'm not to young and I know what I want and I can get what I want and when I want it too

Homegirl 50
Jan 26, 2013, 01:08 PM
You don't want advice and because you know everything, I'll not give anymore. I think you just want to have a boy friend. Now you have one that you will not see because he is in a different state but you have one so that's all that matters.
I still say concentrate on school. Work on your writing skills, it's hard to understand what you are saying and the use of texts makes it worse. Texts is not allowed here.

badgirl1
Jan 26, 2013, 01:21 PM
You don't want advice and because you know everything, I'll not give anymore. I think you just want to have a boy friend. Now you have one that you will not see because he is in a different state but you have one so that's all that matters.
I still say concentrate on school. Work on your writing skills, it's hard to understand what you are saying and the use of texts makes it worse. Texts is not allowed here.

I'm allowed to use anything I want so don't tell me what I can do or can not do k I don't roll like that goted and really don't tell me what I should work on k I'm in the middle school

talaniman
Jan 26, 2013, 01:27 PM
Its great you know everything you need to already. So middle schooler, since you need no advice this thread is closed.