moss1991
Jan 24, 2013, 12:07 AM
I'm a young Hindu guy, 21. I recently met a hindu woman whilst at work. We started talking more and more and eventually we are now boyfriend and girlfriend. We've been dating for 2 months, unofficially though for around 4 months.
However, the person she was with before me was a muslim. And I can't get over that. I tried so hard to get her to realise that he was pretty much cheating on her, he never treated her right but she is one of those people who takes a long time to let go.
Eventually though she has let go, and she says she has never been happier with me and stuff. But I just can't get over it, I know my future lies with her... but her being with a muslim and making that decision before me just kills me. I know people are going to say 'religion doesn't matter'. But it's very different with hindus/muslims. Added to that, he cheated on her, he never respected her.
She is very devout, and very respectful... but the main thing that eats at me was she was actually going to give it a chance when she even says herself she knew it wouldn't have worked out. How can I get over this? I love this women but this just nags at me...
However, the person she was with before me was a muslim. And I can't get over that. I tried so hard to get her to realise that he was pretty much cheating on her, he never treated her right but she is one of those people who takes a long time to let go.
Eventually though she has let go, and she says she has never been happier with me and stuff. But I just can't get over it, I know my future lies with her... but her being with a muslim and making that decision before me just kills me. I know people are going to say 'religion doesn't matter'. But it's very different with hindus/muslims. Added to that, he cheated on her, he never respected her.
She is very devout, and very respectful... but the main thing that eats at me was she was actually going to give it a chance when she even says herself she knew it wouldn't have worked out. How can I get over this? I love this women but this just nags at me...