:confused: I have a 19yr old girl, she still lives with me. Sometimes we fight for the fact that I tell her she's not going out Saturday night?. What should I do?. should she leave either way?

Well, maybe u should make her do something so she can go out on Saturday nights, and make her earn it. For example... "u hav 2 do this before u can do this"...

Well she is an adult, it's hard to make her stay in, she could move out if she doesn't like your rules though. Perhaps settling on letting her go out but being home by a certain time could make both people happy. If she can't even do this then maybe its time to suggest she moves out. Is she in college or does she have a full time job?

I had a rule with all my adult children, if they live in my home unless they were "renting" they lived by my rules, If they were "renting" there were still a few house rules.

So I guess part of the situation is why you don't want her to "go out' and what her living arraingment is.

Well she is an adult, it's hard to make her stay in, she could move out if she doesnt like your rules though. Perhaps settling on letting her go out but being home by a certain time could make both people happy. If she can't even do this then maybe its time to suggest she moves out. Is she in college or does she have a full time job?



She has a job and yea she's a college student. She hardly does any chores at home but I don't mind that is just the fact she always wants to go out ever Saturday night and never obeys me when I say she's not going out.

I believe there is more to this story than we know. ;)

I have considered answering, but decided to wait until ALL the facts came out.