belentree
Jan 15, 2013, 11:54 AM
So.. We've been a group of three best friends since 8th grade up until now (we're seniors)
She's had a horrible family life, I've been there for her when her when she went through a suicidal phase and when her abusive boyfriend broke up with her. (Me and her have always been a little closer than with my other friend)
So when she told us that she was moving 3 hours away, to live with her rich aunt, we were sad but really excited for her to start a new fresh life.
So, like 4 months passed and we were still texting and skyping and such.
But one day out of no where she texted me saying that I was a terrible friend for overreacting when she got back to her abusive boyfriend.( I was really angry when she said she gave him another chance, considering all the sick things he said to her. An example is that she was sexually abused as a kid and he said that her body is so repulsive that she must have made that up because no one would want to do anything sexual with her...
So I was pissed)
She said I didn't support her and I should.
Then we made up (I apologized first even though I don't think I should have.)
And then she started getting really full of herself. Always saying "OMG SO MANY GUYS LIKE ME. IM SO POPULAR AT MY SCHOOL." And at first I was like whatever. It's a phase.
But it just got worse, that even our other friend got mad. She's being so selfish, she doesn't even listen to me anymore. Seriously. We hung out after 6 months of not seeing each other and she showed up with a horrible attitude, saying she was there for senior pictures and kept looking at us like as if we were the dumbest people in the world when we laughed.
So.. We confronted her. But I ruined it because I got emotional. My other friend was trying to tell her that she was really changing and she kept SIGHING. Like the are-you-done-yet sigh.
And I got angry and was like "you're seriously not even going to listen?"
And she said she was angry at us because we cancelled sleepover plans last minute. But I was trying really hard to make it happen.
And so now she won't even give us the time of day.
But I feel like if I wouldn't have talked like I did, it wouldn't be as dramatic.
I miss her.
I already apologized but she won't accept it saying that I'm too dramatic.
I am.
But... She can't treat us like that. Or am I being dramatic?
Help
She's had a horrible family life, I've been there for her when her when she went through a suicidal phase and when her abusive boyfriend broke up with her. (Me and her have always been a little closer than with my other friend)
So when she told us that she was moving 3 hours away, to live with her rich aunt, we were sad but really excited for her to start a new fresh life.
So, like 4 months passed and we were still texting and skyping and such.
But one day out of no where she texted me saying that I was a terrible friend for overreacting when she got back to her abusive boyfriend.( I was really angry when she said she gave him another chance, considering all the sick things he said to her. An example is that she was sexually abused as a kid and he said that her body is so repulsive that she must have made that up because no one would want to do anything sexual with her...
So I was pissed)
She said I didn't support her and I should.
Then we made up (I apologized first even though I don't think I should have.)
And then she started getting really full of herself. Always saying "OMG SO MANY GUYS LIKE ME. IM SO POPULAR AT MY SCHOOL." And at first I was like whatever. It's a phase.
But it just got worse, that even our other friend got mad. She's being so selfish, she doesn't even listen to me anymore. Seriously. We hung out after 6 months of not seeing each other and she showed up with a horrible attitude, saying she was there for senior pictures and kept looking at us like as if we were the dumbest people in the world when we laughed.
So.. We confronted her. But I ruined it because I got emotional. My other friend was trying to tell her that she was really changing and she kept SIGHING. Like the are-you-done-yet sigh.
And I got angry and was like "you're seriously not even going to listen?"
And she said she was angry at us because we cancelled sleepover plans last minute. But I was trying really hard to make it happen.
And so now she won't even give us the time of day.
But I feel like if I wouldn't have talked like I did, it wouldn't be as dramatic.
I miss her.
I already apologized but she won't accept it saying that I'm too dramatic.
I am.
But... She can't treat us like that. Or am I being dramatic?
Help