Hi I'm a lesbian and my girlfriend doesn't like me touching her. She use to let me and now she only wants to do me. I have expressed to her how I like it just the same but she is still adamant. I'm so frustrated and I don't know what to do any suggestions?

If she doesn't care if you are satisfied in your relationship even after you talked about it then I wonder why you are still with her. If you discussed this with her and she still doesn't care, then it seems to me she isn't fully committed to you or how you feel. Maybe it's time to break up with her and move on. Maybe bringing it to that point will get her to understand, maybe not. You will need to decide how important this is to you.

If she will not discuss this or talk to you about it, there are more serious issues in the relationship and most likely larger problems you are not seeing.

But it is very simple, when one partner backs off, it means there is something else wrong.

It may even be the end of the relationship starting

How long you have been dating? How long has this been an issue?

You have expressed to her how you feel, but have you asked her how she feels? Have you listened to what she has said instead of reacting to your own thoughts and needs?

Is she stressed or going through any medical issues? Is she going through any age related changes?

Is she accepting any non-sexual contact from you?