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ace1978
Mar 16, 2007, 12:56 PM
After several posts about my ex, her texting and calling me after I've requested no contact, she's really reaching now. Now she has made one more futile attempt at trying to get me to contact her. She has taken me off and blocked me from her myspace friend page. Like I'm going to call her up and go," why did you block my friend messages. She is such a game player! I can't believe that she is on this much of a power trip with me. She is trying everything to get me to break. Well, to be honest she's really showing who she really is and its actually helping me get over her much more quick. Please tell me that not all girls play these games! I'm 28, I don't need high school games. Anyway, thanks for all your advice on my past posts. I'm finally seeing the light!

talaniman
Mar 16, 2007, 01:01 PM
Takes time but by laying back and minding your own business, you see things that most people miss when they are caught up in the shock and emotion of a break up. Hats of from me Ace.

go-ask-mom
Mar 16, 2007, 02:43 PM
Yes... ALL girls are like this! Naaah, I'm just kidding, but girls/women do seem to react differently to break-ups than guys do. There's the exception to the rule but that's generally not the case.

I would stay strong if I were you as she doesn't sound like she's going to stop until she gets some kind of response from you. Be the adult and scream into your pillow... but never let them see you sweat! :):)

whiteladybug2002
Mar 16, 2007, 02:51 PM
Move on! She is wanting attention, negative or pos, she just wants it! Don't give it to her. She is acting like a child seeking attention.

I am 28 too, although I am married, I have many girlfriend that are still single and they don't act like this! I have a 20 yr old sis that don't act like this! So yes, there are good girls out there!

Good Luck!