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ebonylove
Jan 11, 2013, 01:13 AM
I had my fisrt ultrasound at 13 weeks 3 days and it dated my due date to be June 2 2013. Based on my lmp my due date is June 7th my last period was August 31 or sept 1st. The problem is I slept with a guy August 24th or 25th and slept with another guy everyday after my period who's the father of my baby
Curlyben
Jan 11, 2013, 01:15 AM
Dating is all Best Guess, so if there is an uncertainty surrounding paternity then a DNA test will be the ONLY surefire method of discovery.
J_9
Jan 11, 2013, 01:18 AM
I'm sorry you put yourself into this situation Ebony, but the only way to know who the father of the child is is to have them both take a paternity test.
ebonylove
Jan 11, 2013, 01:24 AM
Dating is all Best Guess, so if there is an uncertainty surrounding paternity then a DNA test will be the ONLY surefire method of discovery.
Getting a paternity test is the obvious but I just wanted some relief now so I want stress so much during my pregnancy I will hope it's the second guy
J_9
Jan 11, 2013, 01:25 AM
I understand wanting some relief, but unfortunately there is no way to tell one way or the other until the test is done.
ebonylove
Jan 11, 2013, 01:30 AM
Had my fisrt ultrasound at 13 weeks 3 days and it dated my due date to be June 2 2013. Based on my lmp my due date is June 7th my last period was August 31 or sept 1st. The problem is I slept with one guy August 24th or 25th and another guy after my period and weeks after did I get pregnant after my lmp and please only answers that will help me through my crisisis I alrdeady know about paternity testing so I don't need insight about that thanks in advance
J_9
Jan 11, 2013, 01:37 AM
Ebony, I deliver babies for a living. I can tell you that dating is nothing more than an estimate. Your dates can vary from 2 weeks before the actual due date, to 2 weeks after.
Dating is really no more than the law of averages.
I really wish I could give you more hope than that, but as a medical professional, that's all the hope I can give.
Fr_Chuck
Jan 11, 2013, 05:31 AM
By the dates given, it can easily be either guy, The sex was just too close together and the dating, just too near either set.
So there is just no way to know, no good guess,
So you will have to, even if you want one over the other badly, just do a DNA test to make sure when the child is born