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babicakes
Mar 15, 2007, 12:47 PM
Hey I've had brown discharge for 4 days now and not sure if I'm pregnant had unprotected sex for five days with my boyfriend and now I'm back home he's in the air force and I'm not late yet but I feel nauses and have headaces been tired my breast are not sensitive though and been eating a lot or maybe I'm hoping and just getting to my head could you help me how did you feel thanks

buggage
Mar 15, 2007, 02:05 PM
Babicakes, when is your next period due?

babicakes
Mar 16, 2007, 01:04 AM
Next week I got up this morning and I had a little crampin but not much and my breast are getting a little sore

Forgot to mention that never had brown discharge before and now it's the afternoon and its for the first time after 4 days white I keep havinng headaces and stuff feel a little nauses but don't know if its just me but I keep feeling worst day by day and I smoke cig have cut down since I have though I am just don't know if I should stop if it make something wrong help me please I don't want to go to the doctors till I'm actually late don't want to seem stupid in front of him but I sweat a lot now too is that normal

Lacey19
Mar 17, 2007, 02:58 AM
Wait till your at least a week late then do a test.

babicakes
Mar 17, 2007, 03:50 AM
Thanks lacey19, I hope I can last that long of waiting

Lacey19
Mar 17, 2007, 03:57 AM
That's OK, if you don't then you will be testing too early. I took a test when I was 4 days late and it came out negative, I took another test when I was 7 and 8 days late and they were both positive. Good luck angel I hope you get the result you are looking for. Me and my partner tried for 15 months and I've only recently fallen pregnant I'm 6 weeks and 1 day to day. So good luck and keep your chin up!

babicakes
Mar 17, 2007, 05:00 AM
Thanks lacey sooo much I'm hoping am I am we really want one and hope your child is healthy and beautiful I'm sure it will be do you think the doctor can find out by blood test

Lacey19
Mar 17, 2007, 05:03 AM
Most definitely, that is the most accurate way of checking

JoeCanada76
Mar 17, 2007, 05:04 AM
Blood tests are more accurate but I think the doctors would want you to wait a bit for them as well. It all depends on where you live.

Best of luck to you.

Joe

babicakes
Mar 17, 2007, 06:44 AM
Should I not smoke cigarets until I find out or is it OK till I find out

J_9
Mar 17, 2007, 06:49 AM
You should not smoke. You should be treating your body as if you ARE pregnant. No smoking, no drinking, eat healthy. Just in case.

babicakes
Mar 18, 2007, 01:45 AM
I want to thank for evrybodys help I really apretiate it well I'm going to update you guys on what's happenning wellt his morning I got up deff.. feeling really nauces last night I had a cigaret and though I was going to puke after I smoked it so I officially stopped smoking but my brest are still not really sore is that a sign that I'm not... well myde and appoitment for next Friday at the doctors so hopefully I will get the news that I want if you have any other comments for me please by the way my brown discharge is gone since yesterday and now nothing thank you for caring

ghost56
Mar 18, 2007, 04:06 AM
Jesus helper is right, but dostors will only usually take blood tests when you are at least 10 days late. So if tou get a negative result when you are 7 days late and you still don't get your regular period, ask the doctor to take a blood test when you are at least 10 days late.

Lacey19
Mar 18, 2007, 07:57 AM
Darling not everyone has all of the pregnancy symptoms, everyone is different.. We can swap if you want because my boobs are KILLING me! Hehehe. Some people have morning sickness others don't it all depends on the person that is pregnant but good luck and be sure to let me know. Ill be thinking of you come Friday. Take care dalring!

babicakes
Mar 19, 2007, 02:42 PM
Thank you everyone for their support and care so happy will have an update on Friday hehe wish me luck ohh and my back is killing me haha

babicakes
Mar 24, 2007, 06:07 AM
So I'm updating you guys wellw ent to the doctors Friday and took a blood test it came out negative but I think it may be too early I don't get my period till the 26 this months so it hasn't been late yet but I feel pregnant I feel sick now more often do you think it still might be early for the doctor to tell I'm so sad I'm hoping sooo bad can you help me

J_9
Mar 24, 2007, 06:15 AM
Did the doctor also give you an exam?

babicakes
Mar 24, 2007, 06:30 AM
Yes they gave me an exam they stuck a think in me and looked on the TV and she said there is an opening or something and that I have good chjance I may be pregnant but its too early to say and that's when they took blood

J_9
Mar 24, 2007, 06:32 AM
You have had the exam and the blood work. Now it is just a matter of waiting for your period.

Now, understand that you are stressful right now, so your period may very well be late. Stress can and does cause that.

Is it possible that you just have a stomach flu?

babicakes
Mar 24, 2007, 06:36 AM
Well I haven't really been stressin just more happy and stomach flue I don't think so I mean I haven't been sick and been eating healthy and nothing is going around like that hear and was at the doctore last week he said everything is fine am I just hoping wa too much I also have a brown linening around my nipple and my lower back has been hurting does that eman anything

automansgirl
Mar 24, 2007, 08:27 AM
Well, try not to stress about it too much. I know how aweful the waiting can be. Unfortunately that is what you need to do... wait. Try not to stress about it, either. I'm am just 6 weeks pregnant, and I didn't have much in the way of "pregnancy symptoms" at first. My breasts didn't hurt until about 3-4 days after I missed my period, and it was only in the evenings then (wish I could say that now). Now my breasts hurt, my back hurts on occasion, when I'm hungry I'm really hungry, I have terrible heartburn, and I'm tired most of the time. I didn't get most of the symptoms until after I found out I was pregnant at 10 days past missed period. Good luck and just wait it out. The 26th is almost here, then you just have to wait a few days, and if it still hasn't come take a test.

babicakes
Mar 25, 2007, 01:21 PM
Well tomorrow is the 26 so we will see what happens wish me luck but my nipples hurt so bad I can't even touch them I think it is a good sign

babicakes
Mar 26, 2007, 04:34 AM
Well today is the 26TH AND I usually get my period in the morning and nothing at all sooo I hope I'm pregnant omg id be sooooooo happy but ill wait one more day and then buy a pregnancy test so wwe will see I've been getting lower cramping though and I never get crams and have been visiting the bathroom a lot more than I have before please answear

Lacey19
Mar 26, 2007, 06:35 AM
Wait a week if you can. Have you ever been late before? How would your family react if you are pregnant?

babicakes
Mar 26, 2007, 12:51 PM
Well I will wait a week but no I have never been late before and we somewhat told his parents about it and their so happy about it but my fam. Might be a little diff but I think they will be fine with it thanks for caryin

babicakes
Mar 28, 2007, 04:09 AM
Todayis the 28 still no period felt really sick this morning going to take a test on Friday

zelda
Mar 31, 2007, 02:28 PM
hey iv had brown discharge for 4 days now and not sure if im pregnant had unprotected sex for five days with my bf and now im back home hes in the air force and im not late yet but i feel nauses and have headaces been tired my breast are not sensitive though and been eating alot or maybe im hoping and just getting to my head could u help me how did u feel thanks
If your pregnant how far along would you be now?

buggage
Mar 31, 2007, 02:59 PM
What did you find out babicakes?

Lacey19
Mar 31, 2007, 03:43 PM
??

babicakes
Apr 2, 2007, 01:01 PM
Well I'm pregnant told my parents they were OK with it first now my dad told me I have to be out by the end of this month that I put shame on my family and that he's very disapointed with me he doesn't even want to help with the wedding anymore I'm so depressed I'm sad I can't do this anymore everyone on my side of the family wants me to get an abortion I never expected this of my father I man I look up to my whole life my boyfriend family is so happy and they can't wait there supporting us with all they have I'm so hrut help my dad told me I have to make my mind up and tell him tomorrow

macrolover
Apr 2, 2007, 01:31 PM
You should probably quit smoking... even if you're not pregnant, it will save you the inconvenience of open heart surgery or lung cancer;)

Lacey19
Apr 3, 2007, 12:28 PM
Oh babes me and you are in the same boat then. What has everyone else in your family said to you? My family have been a nightmare as you have probbaly read from perivous posts, and I felt so weak within myself. Stand your ground mak a decision and stick by it this will involve your boyfriend as well. Its not just your choice. It will get easier believe me it will take time but as long as you stay strong you will be fine :) Keep your chin up OK xxx

apple_bee
Apr 3, 2007, 01:27 PM
Hey are you on the pill? Brown discharge sometimes comes form the pill . Anyway this has happened to m e in the past I wasn't preagnet just having a weird period. Id take a test. But personally I think you don't have anything to worry about.

JoeCanada76
Apr 3, 2007, 02:25 PM
If your parents or family can not be supportive. Then Your better off without them quite honestly. For them to want to throw a child a way. They are a bunch of a--holes that do not deserve the chanch to have any time with you or your new baby. If I were you I would disown them if they can not be supportive of you.

I am sorry to here your having so much problems with your family. It may be hard but you need to do what you feel is best and tell your parents that you do not need the stress and anger. You need to learn how to let it go and actually let them go.

Best wishes and hopefully you keep us all updated.

Joe

babicakes
Apr 4, 2007, 01:38 AM
Well I want to thank everyone for supporting me hear it means the world to me yesterday my sisters husband died and I was crying I've been stressin so much ughh today I'm leaving to go see my boyfriend in england and I woke up with a little blood on my panties and I was sooooooo scared but I have no cramps or nothing and during the day it hasn't been bleeding only when I go peee it has a little red coloring on the beginging and then normal I'm scared and I can't go see the doctor my plain leaves in half houre could this be normal I'm only 3 and half weeks pregnant... I hope its just implatation but on the panties it was a little pinkish and brown sooo I don't know I'm scared neeed some advice before I leave deff will se a doctor when I get there

buggage
Apr 4, 2007, 08:39 AM
It could be normal early pregnancy bleeding, BUT at least call your doctor and tell them what is going on and ask them for their opinions. This could help you not have to live in suspence until you get to your bf's. I am sorry you are having to deal with all this stress and drama. I hope all goes well. Best of wishes to you

Lacey19
Apr 4, 2007, 10:01 AM
Well i want to thank everyone for supporting me hear it means the world to me yesterday my sisters husband died and i was crying iv been stressin so much ughh today im leaving to go see my bf in england and i woke up with a lil blood on my panties and i was sooooooo scared but i ahve no cramps or nothing and during the day it hasnt been bleeding only when i go peee it has a lil red coloring on the beginging and then normal im scared and i can't go see the doctor my plain leaves in half houre could this be normal im only 3 and half weeks prego....i hope its just implatation but on the panties it was a lil pinkish and brown sooo i dont know im scared neeed some advice before i leave deff will se a doctor when i get there

Hi babe you planning on living with your boyfriend? Check it out with a doc. Let us know how you get on.

babicakes
Apr 10, 2007, 03:12 AM
So it was just implatation bleeding everything is fine yes I do plan on living with my boyfriend I'm moving with him to england the 1st after the wedding so I'm pretty excited my dad is very sad but what can I do I'm also leding everything go for family but I'm excited and can't wait I know its going to be a lot of work I want to thank everyone for carying so much this website has helped a whole lot to get all my feelings out and not feel stupid:D

Lacey19
Apr 10, 2007, 03:19 AM
Where abouts in england. If its not too far away from me let me know and if u ever need a friend I'm sure ill only be around the courner :)

babicakes
Apr 10, 2007, 10:49 AM
Mildnhall suffix he's stationed there at the RAF it would be great to get a friend there

Lacey19
Apr 10, 2007, 10:51 AM
That is pretty far from me babe but I'm sure we could sort something out.