Hi. I’m 24 girl and I’m desperately in love with my best friend and she has a boyfriend that I know they're so in love. We have been friend like 5 years and we always had this flirting part but that was almost over 1 year ago that we kissed and that was just amazing. After that we had a secret relationship until now and she told me loves me but she still has her boyfriend.

I asked her if she loves me break up with him, but she refused every time. And I know they go out every day and it just break me in pieces and I don’t know what to do. I can't break up with her and beside that I like my friendship with her. Sometimes that I distance but she pull me back and we have an amazing se* but sometime I know she don't want me and make excuses to keep her distance.

Once we broke up for a while and got back together soon. I love her so much but she keeps hurting me by keep flirting with her boyfriend in front of my eyes. Last time I cried and removed her photos and number from my phone since that time we didn't meet just talked on phone. It’s almost 1 month and I so so so miss her and know I going to kiss her in very first moment that I see her. She keeps telling me I love you but I don't believe her.
I know she is in love with her boyfriend I’m sure. But I don't know why she just can't let me go.

Its you that must decide to stop being the secret lover on the side and get away from her. She has the best of both worlds, and no one not even her boyfriend knows she is a liar, and cheater.

Get your act together and get gone and don't look back. You wimp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its you that must decide to stop being the secret lover on the side and get away from her. She has the best of both worlds, and no one not even her boyfriend knows she is a liar, and cheater.

Get your act together and get gone and don't look back. You wimp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I do agree with him.
But! She needs to be sat down and you need to take your chances with her.
Let it all out!!
Tell her how you think, feel, love anything/everything about her.
Express it completely!!

Life!!
Is a crap shoot!!
You have to take your chances!
And see what happens!
You're a woman!!
She's a woman!!
She should clearly understand where it is you are coming from.


There is a movie called room in Rome.
It's about two women who spent the night together and spin a tail (lies) about one another.
As the night goes into mourning.
They reveal things about one another as they make love to one another though the night.
Mourning comes!
And they depart as the best of the best friends!!
Clearly! It was a night they will never forget!!

I think from what you describe is the way you think and feel about her.
But! I do not think she really knows nor understands how you really feel about her.

She does need to understand that she cannot play both sides of the fence because in the long run!!
Someone will get hurt!