To be honest my first question is can you feel a difference between being fingered and sex? Im pretty sure I had my trousers on the whole time as well! I have convinced myself I'm pregnant, This all happened 13 weejs ago and I haven't missed any of my periods but I keep reading online about how you can still be pregnant and I'm freaking myself out the more I read! I can't be pregnant and have now noticed my body more and am convinced I'm getting bigger in some mirrors I look really pregnant and its terrifying me! Please pleas help me.

If he was playing with himself before fingering you... its possible for him to get you pregnant without doing anything else..

If you don't know these things you shouldn't be playing these games...


You've had periods... since then so the odds are low... but since some women have period-like bleeding while pregnant.. that's not a guaranteed indicator.

Take a pregnancy test, first thing in the morning... the first time you pee that morning. Or go to a doctor and have one done.

That's the best answer you can possibly get...

First, there's no way to diagnose pregnancy online. In order to diagnose pregnancy we need your urine, your blood, or an ultrasound (if you're far enough along). Those aren't possible to obtain via the internet. So there's no way we can tell you if you're pregnant.

Second, am I to understand that he fingered you, while you were fully clothed (interested to know how that works) and you didn't actually have sex, or any ejaculate, just fingering, and you're convinced you're pregnant? If I'm reading this right, all I can say is "sigh".

Sperm is the only thing that can make you pregnant. No, it doesn't have to be inserted via a penis, but being fingered, while fully clothed, with no mention of ejaculate (sperm), well, if you're looking bigger in mirrors, cut down on the fats, because pregnancy doesn't work that way.

First, there's no way to diagnose pregnancy online. In order to diagnose pregnancy we need your urine, your blood, or an ultrasound (if you're far enough along). Those aren't possible to obtain via the internet. So there's no way we can tell you if you're pregnant.

Second, am I to understand that he fingered you, while you were fully clothed (interested to know how that works) and you didn't actually have sex, or any ejaculate, just fingering, and you're convinced you're pregnant? If I'm reading this right, all I can say is "sigh".

Sperm is the only thing that can make you pregnant. No, it doesn't have to be inserted via a penis, but being fingered, while fully clothed, with no mention of ejaculate (sperm), well, if you're looking bigger in mirrors, cut down on the fats, because pregnancy doesn't work that way.

Wearing pants or a dress its not really all the difficult... particularly at a young age were they mistakenly believe they can't get into trouble if the clothes stay on... which is really wrong... but many young people aren't aware of the subtleties of how someone actually can get pregnant without actually having intercourse because they convince themselves its not sex and not dangerous if they are dressed. Even though they do exactly what is required to get sperm from tab "A" into slot "B" without thinking about it

Wearing pants or a dress its not really all the difficult...particularly at a young age were they mistakenly believe they can't get into trouble if the clothes stay on....which is really wrong...but many young people aren't aware of the subtleties of how someone actually can get pregnant without actually having intercourse because they convince themselves its not sex and not dangerous if they are dressed. Even though they do exactly what is required to get sperm from tab "A" into slot "B" without thinking about it

I agree, but, the OP never mentioned sperm, she only mentioned fingering with clothes on. She also stated that she hasn't missed a period in months since this happened. That all leads to one thing, which is paranoia.

I do have to say, it's obvious the OP doesn't have a single clue how pregnancy works, which means that she shouldn't be playing these games until she learns more, and is actually ready to support a child.