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Amna11111
Jan 1, 2013, 04:32 PM
It's been 3 years to my wedding and we have a baby also who is 2yrs old.. my husband was the one who force his family,my family and me that he loved me and wanted to marry me.. but aft wedding things changed slowly... he started getting busy with his friends and flirting with girls.. we use to have arguments about it and I use to ask him to take me out also with his friends sometimes Whn all the couples are together then why not us?
He always use to give an excuse or use to say next time.. the next time never came but he started spending time with his friends so much that now he comes home after 2 or 3 days.. n whnever he come he comes at morning 5 or 6 am and then sleeps straightaway and wakeup and leaves.. or comes at day time for few hours and leave... I've stopped calling him texting him and asking him anything now... whnever we talk we end up in a huge fight and he blames me that you don't compromise... what more should I do ?
Am tired of all this I've asked him to leave me Whn he doesn't want me but he is not ready for that even...
I don't know what To do? I love him a lot...

dontknownuthin
Jan 1, 2013, 04:36 PM
What do you want? If you want him to move out, file for divorce and have him served with papers. Have your lawyer arrange for you to have use of the residence with your child and get an immediate temporary support order so that he has to contribute to household and child support expenses.

He doesn't do what you want so stop asking - get it done independent of his cooperation through a court order.