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Cocokinnut
Dec 30, 2012, 10:40 PM
I like a boy in my class. We went to the last dance together but I keep hearing rumors that he likes TWO other girls. The first girl I'm pretty sure he doesn't like anymore. The second girl I have NO CLUE if he likes her or not. Please help! Does he really like me or was the dance a fluke?

Fr_Chuck
Dec 30, 2012, 11:02 PM
Of course he may like two other girls, nothing wrong with that. You are just dating. It is normal and actually right to like and date several people till you decide on one to be with most.

Has the boy made any promises to you that he was not dating anyone else ?

Homegirl 50
Dec 31, 2012, 08:33 AM
He went to a dance with you, that does not mean he is dating you. I'm assuming you are pretty young, too young to be dating anyway. Him liking other girls is natural, there should be other boys you like as well.

Cocokinnut
Jan 1, 2013, 10:41 PM
First of all, NO I didn't like anybody else at all. Second I'm asking if I should believe all the gossip, not what I should do if it's true.

Wondergirl
Jan 1, 2013, 10:43 PM
Who is saying the gossip?

Cocokinnut
Jan 1, 2013, 11:13 PM
Who is saying the gossip?
Two of my best friends. THAT'S why I need help. If it was random other I wouldn't care.

Wondergirl
Jan 1, 2013, 11:19 PM
He isn't allowed to like other girls in addition to you?

Fr_Chuck
Jan 2, 2013, 01:39 AM
If it is true, you do nothing, since he should at this point be free to like other girls also.

Cocokinnut
Jan 3, 2013, 09:58 PM
I found out that the second "girl" was a nickname fir the first girl and she has a boyfriend. It was an old crush. He doesn't like her anymore. Great now I feel like a jerk fir asking this question in the first place.

Oh I almost forgot! Thanks for all your help you guys! Xoxo <3