Should I contact my ex first after I changed my cell number and blocked him from Facebook? He popped up to my home and I didn't let him in! We were together for four years off and on serveral times. I love him and I know he loves me too, but he wants to keep me on the back burner while he goes out and entertains other females! It really hurt me to see the man I love do me like that! I haven't talked or seen him in two weeks! I miss him so much! What should I do?

Should I contact my ex first after I changed my cell number and blocked him from Facebook?

No WAY!!


He popped up to my home and I didn't let him in!

Best thing you have ever done for yourself, GREAT MOVE!!


We were together for four years off and on serveral times.

Ain't you glad that's over? You should be after wasting the better part of 4 years being his fool!


I love him and I know he loves me too, but he wants to keep me on the back burner while he goes out and entertains other females!

You call this love?I call it foolish!


It really hurt me to see the man I love do me like that! I haven't talked or seen him in two weeks! I miss him so much!

Two weeks may be painful and of course you miss him.Thats human, but doesn't make it smart to go back to an unhealthy disrespectful "LOVE". Junkies love their dope too, even if its killing them.


What should I do?

Stick with NO CONTACT and get your dignity and self repect back. You deserve better don't you?

Lol! I have heard the same remarks that you just told me,but I don't think I want to be with as a couple! I just want to be cool with him as in talking every now and then, grab a bite to eat, my friend, home boy! I think I lost interest and trying to get bk with him because I been hurt many times by trying to get us back together! What you suggest?

Give yourself time to get your head together. The worse thing you can do is try to be friends before you are ready with a guy that's been screwing with your head for 4 years. Go get some real friends, not some player.