Basically I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months and we did rush it a little bit at the start but it then got better, in the second month everything turned upside down, one day he asked me if I'd been talking to another boy and told me his name (Joe) and asked if I'd been asking to meet up with him. I'm not the smartest of people so obviously I said no when I actually had but I didn't ask to meet up with him, I told him my problems that my boyfriend was acting different and wanted a little advice and my boyfriend had recently been making plans with me and then canceling them a few minutes before. Obviously I was annoyed at this so I said that he ditched me but I didn't mean that at all I was just really annoyed and tired. Anyhow Joe asked me to meet him the next day before school to see if I was all right so I said yes, but I was struggling to get there as I was stuck on the train and couldn't get off so I was laughing at myself texting him saying 'help I'm stuck' obviously that's nothing too serious right? I got off the train and saw him and he was waiting for me but I saw my friends too and so I walked to the shops with my friends because I wasn't prepared to ditch my friends for a boy who I didn't even like. So I walked up to school and he was walking there too but I felt bad for ditching him so I said wait there and we walked to school together which was less than a minute and he asked me if I was okay and I said yes.

A few days later is when my boyfriend asked me if I was talking to him and I see him quite a lot in school anyway but I said no because I panicked and thought it was the best thing to do. I then found out how he knew about it because his friend who is also friends with Joe had looked at his phone and read through all the messages. Joe then sent screen shots of me saying that I'm on the train and couldn't get off and stuff to my boyfriend to try and defend himself from getting beat up. I said I hadn't asked to meet up with him which is actually quite true as Joe asked to meet up with me but my boyfriend didn't care as he only saw the screen shots of me replying to Joe and not what he was saying to me. Joe was flirting with me a bit but I loved my boyfriend so I didn't flirt at all and tried to kill it off by boring him and blanking him but obviously my boyfriend didn't see that. My boyfriend then told me that all my friends had been telling him that I flirt with him at school when all I asked was a bit of help on my homework! I didn't know who to trust and I was starving myself, being sick but didn't tell anyone but obviously there has to be one person that knows about it all who tells the whole school so everyone knew about it and every day I'd burst out into tears. Anyway my boyfriend wasn't too fussed that I'd been talking to him it's because I lied about it and said that I ditched him which I obviously didn't mean.

We did make up but he said he didn't trust me anymore so I said I don't care, I'm going to build that trust again so I tried my hardest but I'm too scared to ask him if he trusts me again. He started being all different with me and started blanking me, not answering my calls, canceling plans and just one word answering me so I'd say I'll talk to you tomorrow and he'd start raging at me saying I thought he was boring and he wasn't interested in me which I clearly did not say! Then I went to his house one day for about an hour and everything felt perfect he was being so lovely to me and he was lovely to me all weekend but I had to go on holiday at the end of the weekend so I did and now he's acting weird again. I then found out that he went to a party this week which he told me about but didn't tell me who's. I then found pictures of him on Facebook all over one of my friends who just happened to be single and very drunk. I showed him the pictures and asked if anything had happened and he said no and now he's arguing with me saying I don't trust him and if I don't trust him there's no point in us being together. I do trust him but I don't trust her but I'm afraid to tell him that because if anyone ever finds out I said that I'd be in very big trouble. He's turned it around on me but I'm really upset and I'm trying to show him but he doesn't see it. I've asked for advice off other people and some have said that I should blank him and some have said I should sit him down and talk but I'm still on holiday!

Plus I don't know what'd I'd say anyway because I'd burst out into tears and I've heard boys hate that. Please help me I have no idea what to do!!

And now this girl who was supposed to be my friend is putting pictures of her and my boyfriend as her bbm picture she won't change it to one without him she's done it about 5 times I don't even have a blackberry but people have been telling me!

Okay, I tried to read your wall of words, but it was too hard to get through. Remember that paragraphs are your friends.

How old are you all? 13? 14 maybe?

You lied to your boyfriend, you lost his trust. He lied to you and lost your trust. Time for both of you to move on your separate ways.

No 15 nearly 16 does sound like I'm that young because we're both quite childish, I do trust him though but this girl is annoying me and he's not even replying to me now so apparently it's all my fault

Yes, you both sound too immature to be in a relationship right now.

You don't trust him. If you did, you wouldn't have hid anything about this other boy you were talking to.

I only didn't tell him about that because I used to be practically best friends with that boy so I thought I could trust him but I couldn't.
I didn't like him and I didn't flirt with him so I don't understand why it's so bad that I spoke to him?
He said he doesn't mind me talking to other boys but my best friend is a boy and he always says 'go talk to him' to annoy me.
I wouldn't mind if he did but it's the fact that this girl was all over him and I'm really upset about it but he's not answering me so he doesn't know how I feel

You can't be "practically best friends" either you are or you aren't. Just like you can't be kind of pregnant. Either you are or you aren't.

If you were best friends with this boy, then your boyfriend should know about it. You shouldn't hide it from him. But you did and it's too late now.

Like I said, the both of you are too immature to have a one-on-one relationship. That's not a bad thing, it's just the truth. Your brains aren't mature enough to have an adult relationship yet.

Right now it's best if you just go your own way and stay single.

Be single because all his drama, and lying, and misundertanding, have destroyed the fun. Its just not worth it with everyone in your business.

A good relationship is built on trust, honesty, respect, and a willingness to talk about anything. You both have lost all that. Please move on to better things. You can meet new people, be nice, and respectful, and be yourself. You will find someone eventually who will be the one for you. Happy New Year, and I wish you the best.

Thank you so much!! Not talking to him at the moment because he's blanking me so going to wait till he talks to me