My husband got mad because our 22 year old son made his supper plate before my husband got into the kitchen as he was talking on the phone. This happens a lot my husband is a truck driver and gone a lot but even before that he act jealous or selfish always wants to be in control and is usually very hateful when he doesn't get his way. Son has looked for work and gets it through ed in his face about not working or dead end jobs husband says he is lazy and useless I get all over him for his remarks I really think it is time for me to leave or for him to go on the road and don't come back. I'm really sick of the bickering between them every day and I'm not exaggerating it is every day either at home or on the phone. Any ideas?