Ok I cannot believe I am resorting to an online outlet but I just need someone's input other than family and friends. This situation isn't that serious but I'm trying to learn how to not be in this predicament again. Basically I go to college in a different state than my hometown and I met this guy last summer and we talked off and on throughout the semester but he had a girlfriend so nothing ever happened then they broke up then him and I would talk a lot (which was weird cause we were indifferent areas) and send pictures (whoops) and talk on the phone for like a few weeks pretty heavy before I came home for the break. All of a sudden a few days before I get home he starts backing off a little then I have to do all the chasing (whoops again) then he did reach out twice the weekend I got home (we had so many plans for when I got back!) and I know I was getting really intense because I was trying to take advantage of the short time I had at home so I was getting maybe overbearing? The second time we hung out I asked him why he started backing off and he said some BS about me being in a different state and him taking things too fast initially and wanting to slow down Etc etc. he said he didn't want a long distance relationship and he's "young and doesn't want to wait for someone" so he didn't want to lead me on. Then we had sex that night (triple wHOops) and it was really great and he called me the next day (thank God) then literally Disappeared for two days so I started trying to reach him like via FBOOK Instagram and cell phone but he didn't respond then I finally said can u please be real with me what's going on and he said what do u mean I was. Then I accidentally sent a million more messages trying to get closure and now he won't respond and hasn't talked to me for a week. And he's been with this other girl for like a week straight every day (social media sucks you see everything) what do u guys think was what happened really? This sounds dumb sorry so long